iight ya im only 15 nd im bout 2 turn 16 in 2 monthz((hez 16))....mah boyfriend keeps askin me((not r3ally pressurin me)) 2 have s3x nd suck his dick or wateva...we tried 2 had sex twic3 already nd i stopped him cuz it hujrted so0o bad both tim3s....i think he pop3d me or wateva but im not sure((i wuz bleedin))...anywayz i did suck him off twice already also...but i stopped cuz i wuz just thinkin lyke wat m i doin...he trys 2 b patient me but u kno boyz...alwayz gettin those urges especially when i b ova his house nd stuff kikssin him nd stuff...but i just dont b f33lin comfortable....so i just dont kno wat 2 do!!!!!
2006-08-14 11:15:18 · 24 answers · asked by bnsocute 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him to stop before it's too late and bad stuff happens!
2006-08-14 11:19:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all u need to protect urself, have both u all get hiv tested. If u don't feel like having sex with him then he is not the guy 4 u, u don't really love him and u shouldn't loose ur virginity to someone u don't love. Be patient even if he rushes because ur bosy is ur temple u should protect and cherish it. If he loves u he will respect ur wishes and wait until u r ready, if not u can tell him to hit the road he doesn't respects u and all he wants is ur body. If he leaves u after reffusing to sleep with him then u know he only wanted ur virginity and nothing els. U r still young be patient
2006-08-14 18:24:19 · answer #2 · answered by Italian Empress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should never do anything that you are not comfortable doing. No matter what someone tells you. If your boyfriend can not understand how you feel lose him there is someone out there for you who will. What would this guy do if you got pregnant. I would suggest not going to house anymore or any where you guys will be alone. You should also find someone in your life that you can openly talk to them about this and let them help you.
2006-08-14 18:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by Wondering 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ALL boys will ask!
Don't you want to wait for that special one?
Isn't he worth saving yourself for? It is your only gift to him. He gives you a diamond, but you give him your virtue.
You are worth staying pure and wearing white at your special day (wedding).
No guy is worth changing your future from what it could have been.
Diseases can happen that will have bad results.
Read Proverbs 31 in the Bible and see what it says about a virtuous woman. You deserve to be that woman. God calls sex before marriage a sin.
2006-08-14 18:37:03 · answer #4 · answered by deed 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that if he really cares for you and wants to be with you ...he will wait until you are comfortable and ready. Also you shouldn't be leading him on by performing orally. If you're not ready be real and tell him that. You need to love yourself enough to WAIT until you have found someone special. Sex is a very big step and someone could get hurt ( most times girls)
2006-08-14 18:28:44 · answer #5 · answered by toshiagold 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok ... ask him not to go any further ... ask him to stay in huggin and kissin ... ok if u r not feeling comfy with sex then he shud not ask u over and over again ... and girl u r only 16 dont u hav fear of getting pregnant ... ur life will be over if that ever happens ... ok .... and if he still keeps on asking to hav sex ... tell him how u feel and ... when u wanna hav sex ... tell him that its not right time to hav sex ... anyways if u still want to hav sex ... then try to use condoms ... and have safe sex ... and make sure u do it only when u enjoy it ... u r feeling uncomfortable only caz ur age is not for sex right now ...
2006-08-14 18:28:08 · answer #6 · answered by Ahbab Da Coolest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him that he will go to federal prison for comitting statutory rape, which is not necessarily rape, but any sexual act with a minor (a minor is someone under 18). also tell him that they like to rape young boys in prison, and that when he gets out he will have to tell everyone on his street wherever he lives that he is a registered sex offender, and also that he will have to tell the police every time he has to go out of town or out of state. oh, and quit talking with numbers, its not cool.
2006-08-14 18:22:19 · answer #7 · answered by cheese_octopus 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look first if your not ready then your not ready so dont do it if your not ready if he trueley cares for you hell be patient and wait till you both are ready (legal) just tell him straight up how you feel about the subject and ask him to understand be fore warned though he may end up breakin up with you so be prepared
2006-08-14 18:22:32 · answer #8 · answered by nik 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lay down the law. If you don't want to do it then you need to tell him that. And if he keeps pressuring you, then he isn't worth your time. You should be with someone who respects you, not someone who pressures you into doing things you don't want to.
2006-08-14 18:20:38 · answer #9 · answered by malohalo_89 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him if he keeps asking, you'll dump him. it is pressure when he keeps asking and has made you try. if you're not ready, he needs to quit asking and wait. if he says he can't wait, then you should break up, and find someone that cares about you enough to wait 'til you're ready.
2006-08-14 18:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by lynetteemay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋