should i take him back?

Question

my ex cheated on me and now he wants another chance. shoul i give him that chance?

Answer 1

Hahaha of course not, if you do he'll only do it again thats the way it works. If he went to another woman it simply wasnt working like it should, furthermore that woman will probably search him and hell do her again later for the thrill.

Answer 2

I wouldn't. He should have never cheated in the first place. I don't think 2nd or 3rd chances is the thing to do. Find someone who will make you always feel secure, protective, and be a good provider. Those 3 things are very important in any relationship.

Answer 3

I know how you feel. I took my ex back after he cheated on me, and he only did it again, I wouldnt take him back. I would try to move on , there are alot of guys out there. I know its hard to move on, but I have a little paragraph I have posted in my bathroom and I read it everyday, Maybe you should try it: " Hey Hott Stuff, Sorry about that guy you were with, he sounds like a real jerk. Your way too tasty to be alone, Im out here waiting, come find me!! Sincerely, Your future." Well I hope I helped, And I wish you the best of luck!!

Answer 4

I would wait and try to find out his motivation for wanting to get back with you. Is he just lonely? Does he feel bad about what he did? Why did he do it in the first place? These are valid questions that he should answer and then it would be possible to think about whether or not you should take him back. If he did it just foir a piece of strange then I would definately move on to someone who will appreciate you for the special person you are.

Answer 5

I would say it depends on your relationship and the circumstances. I have seen a couple work through a situation like this and now 5 years later they are married...
However a cheater sometimes is always a cheater...
You know your boyfriend and I'm pretty sure you know whether he will do it again or not

Answer 6

Well only you can answer that question for sure...I truly believe that if they cheat once they will most likely do it again. Of course there are acceptions to every rule but only you can make the choice that is right for you. Good Luck!!

Answer 7

Sure, take him back as long as you can cheat and be forgiven. Sorry, but once the trust has been violated it cannot be regained. You don't need to shop around when the product at home is satisfying.

Answer 8

Ask these questions to yourself and it will help you find the right answer.
1. Do you think you can trust him again?
2. Do you think that you can love him the same way before he cheated on you?
3. Do you think that he will cheat on you again?
4. Do you think its worth it?

Answer 9

If you're even considering taking him back, then that means you want to take him back. It's up to you, but the 2nd time around is never as innocent. If you take him back, please never bring up the fact that he cheated on you. Remember, you decided to take him back. But also remember that he DID cheat, so this 2nd time around, be careful of letting him cheat again. It's all a balance

Answer 10

Ex what? Husband? You might try reconciling and counseling especially if you have children

Boyfriend? Fiance? If you dont have good communication about what your relationship is all about or what is the future of it together...you might try talking about what you expect prior to getting married.