How do I tell a guy that he isn't any good?

Question

How can I go about telling a guy that he is terrible in bed... I mean bad... But I don't want to scare him for life and I don't want to lie.

Answer 1

easy, don't tell him!!!! if you say that, you might as well cut off his penis and have it mounted on your wall as a trophy because he'll never be able to use it again. if you're interested in him try to help him get better. show him what you want. don't be rude, teach him something.

Answer 2

u r not the 1

Answer 3

U don't tell him he's bad. How would u feel if someone told u that?
If you want to make it with this guy then start by telling him what you would like him to do (believe me he will thank you, especially if he gets a good response to this).
If you don't want to make it, then tell him something like your not compatable, or you can't see it going anywhere.

The trick is not to lie, but be economical with the truth. Whatever, telling him he is bad in bed will dent his confidence SOOOO much he may never recover from it.

Answer 4

Don't tell him that he isn't any good because it will make him never want to do it with anyone. Just tell him what you like and tell him how to do stuff better. When you begin the conversation about this just say that you want to make your sex life the best it can be. But don't ever say someone is bad in bed. That is just cruel.

Answer 5

stop sleeping with him, he'll take the hint, actually he probably won't because we're all a bunch of idiots that think we're automatically amazing in bed,

so you must be faking it then right? why waste your time if its no good, tell him to rent some porn, take some classes or whatever, just let him know that he was horrible with you otherwise he's gonna start telling stories and thinkin he's all that and that's not good for anybody when they're horrible

Answer 6

Teach him what you like in bed. Train him. Show him how not to suck in bed. He won't even realize that you think he's a limp noodle. But if you're asking cause you want to leave him, just leave him and give him a convenient answer that doesn't involve sex. If you can't find an answer, start a fight.

Answer 7

take a girlfriend and her boyfriend for support to meet 'X' at the park or zoo, tell him you have had better lovers,and he needs to vanish immediately! Turn and put your support team between yu two! walk away fast and do not stop! Lose his cell phone # at the diner you 3 will go to( that does not pass by your place or his) until 11p.m when the boyfrie

Answer 8

Don't tell him that he's terrible...it's quite likely some other chicks will think he's just fine...

If you don't intend to have sex with him again, then just tell him you and he aren't a good match in that area...if he asks why, offer tips but do it in a nice way (don't say "you did ___ wrong" say something like "consider doing ____ like this instead"

Constructive tips, don't tell him what he did wrong, suggest what he can do to be better (in your opinion)...

Answer 9

He may not want to know, but he needs to know. Tell him what he is doing wrong. Like for example he does not spend enough time with the soft caresses of your body. He is quick to action and always finishes first in very little time. He is just for him and wont return the sex as in oral.etc.

Answer 10

Don't tell him he's no good - just teach him how to BE good. Hell, he only needs to have a few basics, hands, mouth, eyes, etc - and he's got the tools it takes. So why not teach him what you like? Why not gently suggest a few tricks that will make him hot?

This way you get to have great sex... and so does he. Yay!

Answer 11

If you really care about him, then show him what you want him to do without devastating him. If you don't care, then just don't go out with him again. Suppose a guy told you you were loose, or weren't as good as you thought you were ..... how would YOU feel?