there's this girl at school and she beenshowing signs of liking me the past couple of days. and her friend has been, too. If one asked me out, or the oppisite, would it make them not friends anymore??
2006-08-14 10:45:47 · 31 answers · asked by D-fire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They could become mortal enemies...
2006-08-14 10:49:01 · answer #1 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends really on what the girls are like. As sad as it is, people do fall out with friends over a love interest.
I had this problem when I fancied the same guy as my friend. Turns out the guy wasn't interested.
If the girls are proper friends then no, but if you are concerned about thier friendship then there are plenty other girls in the world.
2006-08-14 17:56:06 · answer #2 · answered by scaryclairy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not at all, some time's friend's that like the same guy enjoy competing against each other to see which one actually get's the guy, but be careful sometime's we can be mean when it come's to situation's like that, for example: they might act like they like you at first just to see which one of them you choose, and then play a really mean prank on you, or try to walk all over you with both of them enjoying the benefit's.. Do you understand? But then again mabe they both just really want to go out with you, and they do like you, just be careful don't fall into any traps.
2006-08-14 17:56:10 · answer #3 · answered by none 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok, truthfully? Well, I think it depends on the person. Maybe you should just try to talk to them about it. Both of them. Sometimes in that situation one might get mad at the other, but usually they end up working it out between them. My advice, just talk to them.
2006-08-14 17:55:31 · answer #4 · answered by sarah_n_rj 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends. Pick only one! Don't date both. Once you go with one, you have to wait 3 years to go with the other girl. Have a blessed day!
2006-08-14 17:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Taliea2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on their ages and maturity levels. It takes some tough skin to be passed over, and some girls might become jealous and stop being friends. You might avoid this problem by just dating both of them.
2006-08-14 17:50:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Erg....if they're really friends they should've communicated about it. My friend and I do, especcially when we both like and liked the same guy too. Really, I can't answer you properly because I don't know how stupid or smart or normal these two girls are. Byes
2006-08-14 17:52:02 · answer #7 · answered by hollow_apocalypse_bunny231 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Probably, but there are instances where even if two friends each like the same boy, they still work it out & are still friends while still having the same crush.
2006-08-14 17:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by CHRISSY♥ [; 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. There's no real grantee that they even like you (girls tend to flirt just for the heck of it, whether they like the guy or not), so I'm sure neither one of them will become offended or jealous.
2006-08-14 17:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a mess just waiting to happen. It's not really for you to control though. They need to deal with their baggage by themselves. If you get involved with one of them, just make sure not to be mean to the other.
2006-08-14 17:49:30 · answer #10 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could, but that would not be your problem. You just need to go out with whoever you like best. Let them deal with the drama.
2006-08-14 17:49:10 · answer #11 · answered by Amanda K 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋