Ok well there is this boy at my school who is the sterotypical popular guy/asshole/pervert. And he sits right next to me in 2 of my classes. Last year I absoulutly hated the guy, because he spread a horrible rumor about my friend wanting to have sex with him, but this year things have somewhat changed. I heard him saying that he liked me, and that he was going to ask me out, and i was thinking, "hahaha when he asks me i will say no loudly infront of everyone" And it looked like he was going to ask me out but i gave him a disgusted look and he said never mind. but then just realized what nice eyes he has. And to make the story short, somehow, along the way i have grown to like him...A LOT. Everytime i see him in the halls just look his way, i grow weak at the knees, and my insides freeze up. I would just ask him out but i know that he is an asshole, and i know that what he did to my friend was horrible, but how am i supposed to get over him?
2006-08-14 10:45:44 · 22 answers · asked by Youra_fruitcake 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thing is, you've found something that you like inside of a person that on the outside acts out alot. This is probably because he feels he need attention. He feels like the only way people are going to look, talk, or even think about him is if he spreads some kind of rumor. I'd try getting to know him better. Maybe you can show him a way to get positive attention and you both might benifit from hanging out!
2006-08-14 10:52:15 · answer #1 · answered by littlemisspopprincess 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok here is my honest answer I am a professional asshole/dick'/smartass/dumass however that works. but anyhow if u want to be with this guy just be prepard. It took my fiance a bit to get used to my ways I am an *** but at the same time i speak the truth so it all depends what kind of an *** he is and would he be an *** to you and if he is are u gona be ready to put up with it. I dont mean to scare you. But i will tell you this he could be a great guy but still be an asshole. point being Is he a nice and kind asshole or is he just an asshole who keeps spitting crap out of his mouth.
2006-08-14 10:53:32 · answer #2 · answered by CRASH 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
By growing up! That's a good start. Enough with this high school drama. Since the schools have been closed for the summer there are a lot of teens here- when are you finally going back to school?
2006-08-14 10:50:35 · answer #3 · answered by fasb123r 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Listen sweety, it is no harm in making him your friend, talk to him, know him, ask him why he did so with your friend,
maybe you are wrong in judging him.
Maybe someday you realise he is the one for you.
dont care for what others say
and
if he is not a good person and really an asshole then stop talking to him from your friendship stage only
I BET THIS IS GOING TO WORK.
2006-08-14 11:22:10 · answer #4 · answered by roshan . 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have one, or two of your girlfriends go with you, during lunch period/time, and looking him in the eye say to him, "Leave me alone!!! you're not a man, just a little boy"!!! Walk away, and don't look at him again !! He's after one thing, and that belongs to YOU!!!
You'll meet a nice/respectable/kind man who'll love you someday, and you'll be without blemish/untouched/clean for him!!!
Kindly,
Rockyfox
2006-08-14 11:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, it doesn't sound like you got to know this guy on any deep level so you'll get over him soon. Your'e still young, and there'll be plenty other guys who are not assholes. Just keep yourself busy with school and hobbies and you'll forget about him soon enough.
2006-08-14 10:54:17 · answer #6 · answered by nava_clue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shuld probably find another guy ur intersested in or find a hobby that u enjoy 2 keep ur mind off of him. If u need more advice or just sum1 2 talk 2 e-mail me at rapper4life288@yahoo.com
2006-08-14 10:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You want to go out with a guy who's made your life a living heck just 'cause you like his eyes? what a twisted world we live in today. The answer lies in concetrated will power. You just have to say over and over to yourself things about what you hated about him in the past, things you hate about him now, and things you'll probably hate about him later. If you continue repeating these things to your self, then your subconscience mind will start to accept them as fact, and you'll be long over him.
2006-08-14 10:50:22 · answer #8 · answered by Jay Vee 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honey every girl has a thing for "THE BAD BOY" they are hot. So go for it but don't let it turn you into a awful person like he was to people. Who knows maybe you will change him a little.
2006-08-14 10:53:22 · answer #9 · answered by Tammy R 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ditch the guy. If he is what you say he is, he doesn't deserve you. Don't get into a relationship with someone who only wants to use you. Look beyond his appearance and look at his intentions.
2006-08-14 10:52:01 · answer #10 · answered by bio-diesel guy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋