Often I go to clubs and hit on girls. I can tell they are interested but I want to know how interested they are. So I'll flirt with other girls in front of them. I do it because I want them to realize that I can pickup these other girls easily but yet I'm interested in them. So is it a turn on to you to know a guy is in demand or is it an annoying tactic and a turnoff?
2006-08-14 10:38:21 · 15 answers · asked by play73 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ITS A TURN OFF YOUS F@G!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-08-14 10:48:35 · answer #1 · answered by NATASHA 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Total turn off. If you could have the rest of them then go ahead and have them. What kind of way is that to show a girl your interested in her ? You sound like your a little full of yourself. The only thing your doing by flirting with other girls in front of me then coming over to talk to me, is telling me your a jerk.
2006-08-14 10:47:36 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's a BIG turn off. To know a guy is in demand. If you are in big demand, you are likely to cheat. If you like a girl just be yourself. I personally do not like a man that flirts or try to pickup other women in front of me if they are intrested in me. It seems has if I am seconds, if he flops with the other lady.
2006-08-14 13:11:49 · answer #3 · answered by Big Mama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ugh!
Man, that is a MAJOR turn-off!
When you do that, you're not showing me that you could easily get any girl you want. You're showing me that you're a jerk who doesn't care about me because he's too busy flirting with other women, and that you're more interested in those chicks than me. If you really want a girl to be interested in you, talk to her like there's no one else around you; make her the center of attention!
2006-08-14 10:49:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
um hello! There is nothing more tacky then flirty with a girl in front of me, right after you tried to talk to me first. Big big turn off! That's why I am so glad I am not dating any more! I dont think I could take it with all of the wack pick up lines, and all of these tacky men, that don't take rejection well. Here is some advise don't hit on every girl you see, if you like one stick to that one and try to work on her, if she is feeling you trust me you will know, if not yeah than its cool to move on, but only until then!
2006-08-14 10:48:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its a turn off, sorry I would more than likely think you are a player and you move form one girl to the next. Not my cup of tea. Maybe try to buy the girl a drink, start a conversation or just ask for a dance. That way she'lll know you're interested. Please if you are going for the good girls you won't attract her like that!
2006-08-14 10:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by maybeline 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well I don't play the sloppy seconds game. If a guy wants to be with me, he has lost any chance if he starts hitting on other woman. If he really wants to show me that he is interested he shouldn't even look at others. It kinda says "I know there are other women but I only see you!" to me.
2006-08-14 10:47:38 · answer #7 · answered by kssunflower 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
All you are doing is showing a girl just how arrogant you are. If you really like a girl show interest in HER and not other girls. We like to be the center of your attention, we don't want to fight for it.
2006-08-14 10:44:29 · answer #8 · answered by *Cara* 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're really as hot/charming as you present yourself to be then it would make you more appealing. We all want what we can't have. And when we know that its an offer that's going...going...gone we'll jump on the chance. Literally! :)
I guess you need to ask yourself in the words of Dr. Phil...How's it working for ya?
Switch it up if you're not getting the results you want.
Good luck babe!
2006-08-14 10:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by Ponderpink 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Definitely a turn off
2006-08-17 12:27:13 · answer #10 · answered by ninanina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not a jealous type so that is very annoy for me...You need to just go ahead talk to the girl you like..show some gut!!
2006-08-14 10:44:54 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋