i have a bf who i'v bin with for 6 months now, and i have a really good friend who is also a male, i see alot of my male friend and my boyfriend hates it even tho i tell him i love him, is this ok for me to still be seein my male friend.
2006-08-14 10:32:24 · 19 answers · asked by xxholly_wollyxx 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also this is causin alot of arguin such as my boyfriend checkin places that i say im going with out him, just to see who iam with?
2006-08-14 10:33:13 · update #1
Listen you have on average 28 thousand days in your life.
If your boyfriend loves you then he must also trust you.
Dont waste any time in your life with jealousy it will consume him.
Break it off- if he cant respect who you are!
How many of those 28 thousand days do you have left ?
love and kind regards
thu wish
2006-08-14 10:50:17 · answer #1 · answered by ♥The♥ Bearded Cheerleader 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having male friends is not any bad but
its up to you how u behave and stay in controll without exceeding the limit.
spend time with them,Your boyfriend should trust you and respect a good friendship between u n ur friends if its really a good friendship.
Its normal for men to have some sort of suspesion on their Gf cuz these days there r not much good women.
But if there is you should prove it to him that its you.
Bye
2006-08-14 11:02:14 · answer #2 · answered by Captain Cool 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jealousy is the beginning of the end in a relationship. If you were friends with this guy before you and your boyfriend got together then I don't see why he should have such a problem. Especially as it is he you are with
2006-08-14 10:39:22 · answer #3 · answered by koko 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you see yourself sitting down with the two of them for a pizza and a DVD? Could they be friends? Is the 'friend' hoping to be more? - I've looked at your profile picture - you are quite delicious! Any young man is gonna drool around you, unless he's gay. Can you tell your BF that your friend is gay? Would your friend play along with that? Or is it time to tell the BF that your friend is a friend first, and a male second, that you have a history, and shared interests, but that he dates other girls, and you like him, but it's like he's a brother... Is any of this helping?
Oh, and pierced nipples?
Hell, Yeah!
Good luck!
2006-08-14 10:43:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the boyfriend. He's too controlling and possessive. Having male friends is not an offence.
2006-08-14 10:38:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have every right to see your friends. Dump the control freak. It is not OK to check up on you. Do you want to enjoy your life or not? I know what I'm talking about, I walked after mine locked me out because I went out with some female friends one night. The relief was enormous.
2006-08-14 12:06:13 · answer #6 · answered by Thia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u look sexy holly in the pic say to him nothing is goin on with ur male mate but u have female friends i dont get jealous with you also y is he feeling insecure if he thinks there is something going on. its ok to see any male or female friends that what it is friends not a relationship hope this helps abit xx
2006-08-14 10:57:27 · answer #7 · answered by BUDDXX 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should always keep your friends. Good friends are very hard to come by. Your boyfriend should be more understanding.
2006-08-14 10:47:36 · answer #8 · answered by Iodine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Friends often outlast relationships
How would you like to be the dumped friend?
What he do to deserve it?
What about BF girl mates?
2006-08-14 10:43:07 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its not ok if you act like flirty with your friends and hug them r stuff like that but if you just hang out.... one thing, if you just go out with males hell be jealous try to go out with some girlfriends also so that he wont feel bad....
if he follows you, that is not nice.... do you follow him? same rules... if you act naturally, as friends and NOTHING else with your male friends, thats fine... and if he cant stand that better start thinking of a change of attitude... good luck! =)
2006-08-14 10:39:59 · answer #10 · answered by militastarg 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋