My ex boyfriend said he wanted to be good friends when he broke up with me.. but now it seems like he is ignoring me and wants nothing to do with me whatso ever.. whats his deal? what should i do?
2006-08-14 10:26:28 · 30 answers · asked by liberos-are-fun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I won't tell you what you should do. I KNOW YOU WILL NOT LISTEN. IT IS TOO HARD FOR YOU TO BE RATIONAL AT THIS MOMENT. So, instead I will tell you more about your feeling.. Hope this will help. ^_^
Maybe he is not ignoring you. You guys get used to see each other every other day? and now may be he doesn't call you as much and you don;t knoow when you can see him. So, this make it seems like he is ignoring you. Well, try to think like this. How often do you call your normal friend? Once a week? Maybe once a month? Now you and him are only FRIENDs. So, don't think he is ignoring you ..it is just you are at different relationship now.
Trust me. If you push him and ask him why and why he igoniing you. You give him stress.
Worst case. He will NOT even be your FRIEND. You don't want that happen. I think you will get more hurt.
I am talking like this. Because I was in your positon now. I am totally regret of pushing my EX so much. Now, I can't even see her. She said 'I don't want to receive any of your call/ message ..etc" Suck to me like me. /sigh
2006-08-14 10:34:42 · answer #1 · answered by City hunter 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Why are you having trouble and he is your ex? The key word is ex and if he is ignoring you and don't want to be bothered, leave him alone. There are other people out there who are going to love you for the special person you are. You will find the one. If he told you he wanted to be good friends with you and has not, he obviously is not a man of his word and you are better off. Also, his present girlfriend may have a problem with him still being friends with his ex. I would call him up, express my feelings, and hear his response. You will then know what to do from there.
2006-08-14 10:36:50 · answer #2 · answered by sam 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alica you should to evaluate getting a restraining order positioned by contrast fella. He appears like he does not cope with rejection ok and whether what he's asserting are basically threats they are not ideal. this sort if he communicates with you besides he may well be charged. additionally you have the marvelous to no longer stay in worry so do your self a favour and a minimum of look into this possibility. solid success.
2016-09-29 06:40:00 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should move on with your life!! Go out and try new things and meet new people. Life is too short to spend time agonizing over an ex that is ignoring you. He is obviously showing you what you meant to him by his actions now. I know it is hard but you will be much happier without him it sounds like!! Best of luck!
2006-08-14 10:58:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he dosen't want to be with you, you don't need him. He's not the only other fish in the sea; make more friends and if he isn't talking to you, then find something else! Don't let his jerkness bring you down! Get out there and strut your stuff, you're single! And he's an ex... you can't quite expect him to be a good friend until miles down the road... trust me on this one.
2006-08-14 10:34:32 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You must move on, it's hard to comprehend but you will give yourself alot of pain if you keep thinking about your ex. It sounds like he didn't want to completely hurt your feelings. It was cruel of him to lead you on!!
When you fall off a bike the best thing you can do is get straight back on it again!!! Well a differant bike in this example!!
Get on some dating websites, get dressed up, go out and show him that you don't need him in your life!!!!! .... and that you can do better than him!
2006-08-14 10:33:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was sort of in the same situation. It seems like you need to move on, there was a purpose for breaking up and it seems like your stiil holding on to a something that has faded away. Do yourself a favor and do not prolong the pain and the memories.
2006-08-14 10:31:48 · answer #7 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly I don't think being just friends ever works after a relationship... Don't worry about it just get on with your life. If he is ignoring you do the same. Why waste your time?
2006-08-14 10:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately, the "we can still be friends" line was a way to make you not flip out as much when he broke up with you. Men and women rarely mean it when they use that line,
2006-08-14 10:30:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
GURL he still got feelings for u dats how boyz r sumtimes,dnt pay attention 2 dat cuz he want u to come to him but 2 CAN PLAY DAT GAME do 1 of his numbers and watch how he act
2006-08-14 10:32:44 · answer #10 · answered by ♥Mz.Top Notch♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋