Is it wrong to be a christian and have sexual thoughts?

Question

I play with my my breasts too is that wrong? How do I stop?

Answer 1

Yes. Stop being a Christian.

Answer 2

No it's not wrong...just natural. People forget that God created sex. If your thoughts are not pure and are say...perverted, that is something else however. There are those that will tell you that because you have sexual thoughts that you are sinful. Fact is it is a natural human reaction and it is not wrong. Acting upon it if you are not married or if you are married and envision someone else IS sinful. Still and even so...repent of it and try to do the right thing confessing your oppression to God. Remember again that He died for you so that your sins may be forgiven. Becoming a Christian did not make you unable to commit sin or be tempted. It is whether you take the action or refuse it. While in the wilderness, Jesus was tempted by Satan remember? Don't beat yourself up over it...that is what Satan would want you to do.

Answer 3

Let me tell you the Jewish way.

We Jews recognise that we ALL have sexual desires.
Don't you think they were put there for a reason?

Certain religions say certain people should remain celebate.
Well, that's fine for people who have no sex drive whatsoever - for the rest it's a continual battle.
How can anyone think of religious matters if they are frustrated.

Therefore, we believe that we should have sex, but not with anyone - just your partner.

For this very reason, when a synagogue is interviewing for a rabbi, they normally choose a married man rather than a batchelor.

Hopefully the married man will be sexually satisfied and then he can go on to greater things.

Don't try to deny what has been given to you.
Sex isn't dirty.

Answer 4

Certainly not, otherwise Christianity would die out if no little Christians were produced by sexual means. No Janie M. don't worry, you are not committing any mortal sin. It's totally natural and as long as you don't try to re-enact those thoughts through some horrible means, you will not be thrown out............. (with the greatest respect, I suppose the Man himself had such thoughts when he was about 14 or 15 - always remember - 'the mind is willing, but the flesh is weak'.........God bless.........

Answer 5

No, it is not wrong. God knows that people have sexual thoughts, God invented sex. But there is a time and a place for sexual thoughts and there are good and bad sexual thoughts. A school teacher should not be having sexual thoughts while teaching a class. I father should not be having sexual thought about his child. Understand?

Answer 6

Having sexual thoughts is a normal part of life. You can still be a good Christian and have sexual thoughts. My pastors have many children and I don't think that they had kids with out having sexual thoughts.

Answer 7

No. As a human and Christian, it's quite normal to have sexual thoughts.

Answer 8

God made you a sexual being.
I believe the limits were placed on social conduct.
ie be monagomous.
BTW I think if you have sex with someone that marries you according to God.
Civil contracts just that - contracts - an instrument of the state.
As in marriage contract - getting a marriage licenseand so on.
God doesnt work in the courthouse. He has a larger venue.

But to feel as the creature God made - of course - as natural as breathing.

Answer 9

As long as you don't lust, I've looked at porn while I was a Christian but I was ignoring God, I came back to Him and have stopped. As long as your not lusting like wanting to have sex w/ someone or something, but thinking about what sex in marriage will be like is okay. Becareful I still let certain thoughts get out of control

Answer 10

No. It's called hormones and everyone's got them. It's just a natural bodily response and if you didn't have any sexual thoughts at all, it would be considered unhealthy. Like I said, everyone has these feelings, regardless of what religion. We are all people after all.