My boyfriend tells me i need to find out if im gay or not because i have THOUGHT about getting sexuall with a girl but just never have. I just think about it i wouldn't do it. I can't see why my boyfriend is telling me to sleep with a woman when all i do is think about it (not all of the time)
2006-08-14 10:12:41 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I know i wanna be with my boyfriend he is all i need. I just think he is trying to get me to think im bi or what not because then he could get a piece of that pie? He is putting thoughts in my head.
2006-08-14 13:23:47 · update #1
I think that if you want to do it then go head. If its okay with your boyfriend. If your Unsure then u need to find out what you are befor you totally commit your self to your boyfriend with out knowing what you are ? or maybe he just wants to have a 3 some with you and another girl. Or the thought of 2 girls getting at it makes him hot.
2006-08-14 10:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Sami 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you wouldn't do it, then you're probably not. I don't think that there's a thick line between gay and straight, though. And why the heck is your boyfriend encouraging you to sleep with a woman? That just doesn't seem right. So, if you just think about it but wouldn't take action, don't fret about it. It's human nature to fantasize.
2006-08-14 10:22:06 · answer #2 · answered by Bondy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its common to have that fantasy to sleep with another girl but it doesn't mean you are gay. Your boyfriend sounds like he's unsure about you leaving him for a girl since you are talking this way. Tell him you are not going to sleep with another girl and tell him to get over how you are talking. Good luck.
2006-08-14 10:19:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your probably bi sexual. Its alot more fun and less of a label in a way. Try being with a girl... experience as much of life as possible, no harm in that. And its good that your boyfriend is ok with it. Most men are very jealous.
2006-08-14 10:18:14 · answer #4 · answered by Angel Eve 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the only way to know is to find out. Don't let society dictate your true feelings. My best advice is, if you are attracted to someone of the same sex, see where it leads. Would you rather find out and be happy knowing or will you die wondering what it would be like. How did you know you liked Ice Cream or Soda or a walk in the park until you tried it?
2006-08-14 10:20:09 · answer #5 · answered by L.A. H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your boyfriend should drop the subject unless you bring it up. You are young and questions of sexuality often arise in the early adolescent years. Don't worry it about. If your boyfriend keeps bugging you about it, drop him and find someone who will love you and respect your feelings.
BTW, I think you'll admit that bisexuality is something of a fad among teen girls right now. Don't get caught up in it just because "it's cool.".
2006-08-14 10:19:36 · answer #6 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think about the same thing. Just because you have ur fanatsies, dosent mean ur gay. Everyone would like to have a 3-some some day
2006-08-14 10:19:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, first of all, almost every girl is curious at one time about being with girls. its a perfectly normal part of growing up. second, if your boyfriend is just trying to get you to sleep with some girl, it may be just because he wants to see girl on girl action, which alot of guys find a turn on.
2006-08-14 10:18:55 · answer #8 · answered by lizzyb 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably because like every other guy on this planet it is his fantasy to watch and join in with two girls. You need to do what YOU feel is right for YOU!!! Best of Luck!!
2006-08-14 10:20:03 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he just wants you to sleep with a woman because its hot
2006-08-14 10:19:53 · answer #10 · answered by Matt 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋