They were holding hands and kissing! I feel like sh** ! What should I do?
2006-08-14 10:04:49 · 68 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Dump him obviously.
That's a no-brainer
2006-08-14 10:07:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
After you allow some time to pass, at least enough time so that you can have some clarity and come across as clear head and firm, you need to contact him by phone and tell him exactly what you saw and make it very clear to you that his actions reflect a lack of committment and that you cannot be involved with someone who does not show you respect. I suggest by phone because in person a discussion will develop and if you really want to show yourself the self respect you deserve, you will be firm, straight forward and end the relationship. Don't feel like sh** because these things happen and it takes time to get to know someone. This is not about you, but about his behavior.
2006-08-14 10:11:18 · answer #2 · answered by BINGSBOY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you saw him holding hands and kissing another girl then that would be you ex and honey you will be better off without him.. Life is hard enough, you do not need some jerk playing you. You are young enough move on and be happy. He is not worth stressing over.
I know it sucks and hurts like hell, but at least you found out before you got married or something.
Best of luck to ya!!!!!!!!!!!!!1
2006-08-14 10:11:01 · answer #3 · answered by hummingbird 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow! Bingsboy gave an awesome answer. No matter what, you shouldn't feel badly. It is his problem, not yours. It is easy to sit in the cheap seats and give you advice to dump someone that you obviously care about (or you wouldn't be asking about this), but you really do not need someone in your life who would do something like that to you. There are millions of men out there in the world who will treat you with the same respect you give them. Find one of them and forget this jerk! You're just not the right combination apparently.
2006-08-14 10:16:45 · answer #4 · answered by fitness_girl730 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get out there and hold hands and kiss another girl.
2006-08-14 10:19:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
your sure it was him? Do you know the girl? If so does she know he is taken? If not then I recommend alittle revenge on the side of dumping him. If you know the girl get together with her and make a scheme telling your guy your dumping him because youve decided to date women and then introduce him to you women who happens to be the women he was kissing yesterday! Then both you dump his sorry %^$#! If not get a male friend to make out with you in front of him and see how he likes it and then dump him!
2006-08-14 10:09:33 · answer #6 · answered by cats4ever2k1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
break up wit him and dont talk for a while! or if u want to get back: if u have a guy friend then ask him if he could help u get back at ur bf and act like u two are going out! kiss, and hold hands right in his face! lol
2006-08-14 10:09:46 · answer #7 · answered by cookieluvr2010 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
what you should have done was gotten to the point where he could see you but she couldnt then "act" like you just found him out (even thought you had already seen him) then gave him a look a "you piece of **** "look then turned around and walked away that wouldave been perfect then if he tried to appologize ignore him and of course its over but...since you didnt make it harder on him just break up with him and whatever he tells you for example hes sorry and itl never happen again...its lies so move on...its the best thing for you
2006-08-14 10:12:34 · answer #8 · answered by C01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confront him about it. Dont tell him you saw him, just say you heard from a reliable source that he is seeing someone else to see if he tells you the truth. if he admits it, and it wasnt anything more than kissing, give him a choice of you or her. If he does it again. Dump him immediatley.
2006-08-14 10:15:03 · answer #9 · answered by sea_sher 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to HIM about it. Sounds like there's a good chance your relationship is over, but at the very least you need closure. Don't yell and scream, but told him what you saw and then go from there.
Sorry girl...I know that had to hurt...
2006-08-14 10:11:56 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't dwell on it, the best revenge is living well. Its God's own little way of letting you know that he's not good enough for you and you need to find someone who would never disrespect you like that. i know you want to hurt him, but don't be the one who feels like crap. When men cheat no matter what they say , it has nothing to do with you, its their own insecurites and greed that draw them to decieve you. Keep your head up.
2006-08-14 10:10:16 · answer #11 · answered by snowflake9540 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋