im totally st8!!!! but i hate having a guy make a pass at me.. or look at me really really gross!!!! im not a whore.. i dress ok.. nuttin too revealing or slutty.. but like i nvr make the first move!! my frinds's say im crzy... but i really just like a sweet, nice, sensitive guy!!!!
dont get me wrong cuz if i see channing tatum anYWHERE i completely start faNTASzing but ya...
is hating to flirt normal?
2006-08-14 10:04:46 · 22 answers · asked by iyikka14 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i guess i dont mind bein teaseD... but not the way of someone talking bout getting in my PANTS!!!?
2006-08-14 10:21:12 · update #1
Nope... I think flirting is pretty dumb. You don't need to flirt to get a guy's attention. Just your looks & normal atittude get you places. There are girls that like flirting and others that don't. Maybe your friends think flirting's good, but that doesn't mean you have to! Be your normal self. Oh, and about a "sweet, nice, sensitive guy", I think you're totally right! Don't worry. Hating to flirt is normal (I totally dislike it... guys should see you for who you really are!).
2006-08-14 10:14:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it is that you hate to flirt, but that you think flirting implies something about you and who you are in a negative sense. I get the sense your not completely comfortable with yourself and how others perceive you. First off, realize that flirting comes in many forms. Simply saying hi can be and often is flirting. Second realize that many people simply see flirting as a game and I believe that is what bothers you. My advice to you is relax and be comfortable with yourself and find your own acceptable definition of what flirting is for you and don't worry about what anyone else thinks.
2006-08-14 10:14:55 · answer #2 · answered by rkrell 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
You don't hate flirting. You hate being objetified. It makes you feel low. You hate someone looking at you... You hate interaction and there might be a bit of arrogance there. Even couples flirt with each other so flirting is not only for singles aomong singles.
There is nothing wrong with you, but you have to consider you may end up alone for the rest of your life
2006-08-14 10:14:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 3⤋
So how do you know if anyone likes you if you don't flirt? You like sweet, nice, sensitive guys, but they flirt too...unless they're the shy type, and then you'll never get anywhere.
Flirting is fun. It let's you know that someone out there finds you attractive and wants to know more about you. Granted if you find the guys looking at you to be creepy then get away from them. Give it a chance you may end up liking who you're flirting with.
2006-08-14 10:12:55 · answer #4 · answered by -J 4 · 0⤊ 3⤋
well i think that it is kinda crazy but yeah if you dont wanna flirt then dont. No one is telling you that you have to like to flirt or not, just maybe you should be open to flirting.
2006-08-14 10:11:50 · answer #5 · answered by Melyssa's Girl 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah I guess it's normal.
Might not be too common, but it's not totally bizzaro.
You seem pretty average.
2006-08-14 10:09:14 · answer #6 · answered by peace and love. 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yeah some people are just not comfortable flirting
2016-03-16 22:17:57 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
now why would a nice, cute, smart girl like yourself hate flirting?
2006-08-14 10:13:49 · answer #8 · answered by slippped 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea, i kinda hate to flirt too
2006-08-15 06:52:43 · answer #9 · answered by chaldo2luv91 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yea its completly normal. What ur doing is seeing how different guyz act which is perfectly normal. If u wanna talk sum more about the subject e-mail me at rapper4life288@yahoo.com
2006-08-14 10:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋