How can two people who like each other, not get along?

Question

I'm dating this guy and when we get along, we are on fire. But little things that we both do set each other off and we both take it so personally. I know he likes me, and he knows I like him... what do we need to bridge the gaps and get along?

Answer 1

Communication. You need to find out what's setting him off and he has to find out whats setting you off. Your both taking things personally because your feeling the other one doesn't care about something. You need to talk more so you can become more intimate with each other so little things remain what they are, little things.

Answer 2

Being able to talk to each other is very important, but you also need to remind each other that people are different, people are going to disagree and argue from time to time that's how things work. Its up to you guys to determine how often that is going to happened. And don't forget the good times...cherish those always.

Answer 3

OMG! Me and my bf had the exact same prolem. About a week ago we sat down together and I told him what things he says and does that tick me off. And he did the same. After it was all out in the open, we agreed on what to say, and what not to say to each other. That way, confilt can be avoided.

Answer 4

me and my boyfriend are the same way we drive each other crazy sometimes. but when we get along. we act so in love. we just broke up because of the fighting and each of us taking everything so personally sometimes.

Answer 5

You're on fire? I take it you guys are messing around? This is what happens when you do that stuff without knowing one another well.

Answer 6

u are too much alike in certain ways...thats why u go off on eachother sometimes. u cant fix that...if u really like eachother u'll be able to live thru those types of things together.

Answer 7

Agree to disagree. that's all u can do sometimes.