i love her sooooo sooo much much ... we went to High School together..close friends.....then on the last days of school she gave me her number...a month later(now) i want to talk her and go out and stuf but i don't make enough money to buy her nice gifts..plzzz help, i love her more than ny thing...but i' m scared that she might not like me anymore if i say that i have feelings for her.
2006-08-14 09:59:42 · 29 answers · asked by :) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
One of the biggest mistakes us guys do is please their gf the way we think they want to be pleased, you got to get to know her first to understand what actually does please her...it might not be money related at all...it might be your sincerity...your smile...or voice..but she will never know if you don't call her.
2006-08-14 10:05:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depending on how close you are, friends may be as far as your relationship goes. The first thing that will tell you if it is going anywhere should be the fact that money doesn't matter. If the feelings are there, nice gifts aren't a requisite. Talk to her. It's not the easiest of things to do, but it will be worth it. Even if you don't end up "together", you can still have your friendship.
2006-08-14 17:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go ahead and talk to her, and tell her that you love her (your heart will guide you on this one). You don't need to give her any gifts. It's just the thought that counts. Just compliment her, and ask her if she'd like to go somewhere with you (not exactly a date or going out, just somewhere that both of you will get to talk about each other. You and her may have more in common than you thought!). Try it out!
2006-08-14 17:06:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sure she'll like you. and you shouldn't have to be able to buy her nice things. alot of girls just appreciate you cuddling and watching movies on a friday night. or having dinner together. i mean if she would care that much about getting something really nice then it's not worth it. i mean if she wants that all the time that is. she should enjoy being with you. i think you should call her. and ask her out on a date.
2006-08-14 17:04:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ummm call her. scrape together what cash you can and take her somewhere if she wants to be with you. Dates don't have to cost money. Some of the best times I've ever had with a girl were when we just walked around town together. Just try and spend some time with her it doesnt matter what you're doing.
2006-08-14 17:07:03 · answer #5 · answered by Big Thinker 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell her before it's too late. She won't care if you don't have enough money to buy her nice gifts if she knows how much you care about her. Take action before you can't anymore.
2006-08-14 17:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's about you she will like you for who you are and not your bank roll. If all she wants your for is your money then its time to move on, its the thought that counts. Also don't smother her because that can push a girl away, just be patient and if your who she wants she will come to you. Don't beat around the bush, just tell her whats on your mind.
2006-08-14 17:08:21 · answer #7 · answered by songbirdz03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be sure that
girls like the gifts which mean some thing
tell her about your feeling but in a romaticly way with anice red flower
if she do not feel anything towords you do not ask her again
just tell her let us be friends then
but bestfriends
2006-08-14 17:06:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest first and foremost with her...so what if you dont have much money..if a girl really loves you then that wont matter..Make her a gift,,pick some flowers....Write her a letter..Just be honest with your feelings and she will respect you alot more for it...god bless you
2006-08-14 17:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by glowworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
poor guy. well, if i was her, i wouldn't care what you gave me. it wouldn't have to be anything very expensive. anything that i got from a guy i would consider special. and it's best to express ur love for her in ways that will make her feel that you love her inside and outside appearence. and you could express ur love to her in little tiny ways that will make her soooooo happy. it doesn't have to be huge- the things you buy her. Size doesn't matter when i comes to love. the love you express to her- priceless.
hope i could help!
p.s. if she doesn't like you after u tell her how u feel, she's not the one for you.
2006-08-14 17:12:50 · answer #10 · answered by yehaw_girl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a good time to call
you should call her and get over there before some other poor fool beats you to the bedroom;
look she gave you that number 4 weeks ago i would say...she's hot to go she's ready, CALL HER
2006-08-14 17:09:21 · answer #11 · answered by twixtull 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋