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i like this guy but he is going to college and i am still in high school until next year. he and i when we first met had the best conversation i had ever had with a guy but i was dating someone at the time and i didnt get the chance to tell him how i felt. now he is leaving to a college about 2 hours from here. what should i do? he leaves thursday. so please hurry. i dont have good timing i noticed but now i am free and i would really like to date him. will it work out if he does like me? thanks.

2006-08-14 09:45:49 · 10 answers · asked by ERICA J 3 in Family & Relationships Singles & Dating

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Girl it is time to tell him your true feelings. If you don't you will regret it for the rest of your life not ever knowing what may have happened. Besides 2 hours is not that far of a drive on the weekends. But if you truly like him and even feel you may love him. Be confident in yourself you are a woman and we are all beautiful and what guy even if he don't feel the same way would not be flattered go for it !! AND GOOD LUCK

2006-08-14 09:52:09 · answer #1 · answered by gipsey3 1 · 0 0

Well I guess it wouldn't be a bad idea to tell him how you feel. It would all be up to him and whether or not you guys would be willing to do the long distance relationship. But you have to remember that he's starting college for the first time. That means lots of partying and lots of girls. Ask yourself if you'd be able to handle that. Maybe you can just be good friends. Hang out when he comes home. Or maybe go up to visit him every once in a while.
Good luck :)

2006-08-14 10:11:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Long distance relationships are difficult in the best circumstances. You don't have enough time to establish a really strong relationship that could help you weather through the difficulties of such a relationship. I think you should try to get over him and concentrate on enjoying your senior year. If meet up again next summer and the circumstances are better, then you try it then.

2006-08-14 09:50:59 · answer #3 · answered by Jennifer J 3 · 0 0

Long distance relationships only work when they were started as a close distance one. Don't complicate things now by trying to do what you should have done before. No reason to lament either. He is going to college and pretty sure will meet other girls there, so it would be harder to stay together even if there would be a chance of a relationship

2006-08-14 09:51:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

First thing's first. Don't sound so desperate. If he likes you as well, things will fall into place. You say you enjoyed this guys company, right? So then, why not tell him so, and tell him that you would really like to talk to him sometime in the future. Exchange numbers and wait for his call. Don't call him. unless you can't help it, but some guys don't like to be percieved by someone desperate. But then again, that's just my view. Hope that helped. Good Luck.

2006-08-14 09:57:40 · answer #5 · answered by alter_ego 2 · 0 0

You'll find that as you mature, timing will always be a problem. Laws of attraction never pay any mind to time.

If you like him, then go on a date with him, but don't put all of your eggs in his basket.

He's going to college and I doubt that he's looking to be tied down. Especially in a long distance relationship.

Eventually, you will be going to college and meeting new people as well.

If it was meant to be, it was meant to be...good luck.

2006-08-14 09:53:49 · answer #6 · answered by -J 4 · 0 0

It can work if you both make it work. However waiting until the last minute isn't in your favor. Just go for it and let him know how you feel before it's too late

2006-08-14 09:49:31 · answer #7 · answered by purpleama456 4 · 0 0

Well yea you should have told him before how you felt. Now you have a chance, dont let it pass you by. Tell him exactly how you feel.

2006-08-14 09:51:41 · answer #8 · answered by garichick4life 2 · 0 0

I think to wait is what is best

2006-08-14 09:48:43 · answer #9 · answered by Angie 1 · 0 0

TELL HIM

GO TO COLLEGE WITH HIM : )
GET A BETTER WATCH?

2006-08-14 09:51:13 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

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