I have been with this gal for more then 3 years and we have normal sex. She does enjoy sex but i don't think she ever had an orgasm. I have tried so many different techniques, poistions, places but i dont think she ever came. Any suggestions
2006-08-14 09:41:33 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes i do foreplay and always perform oral on her.I do lick her clit for 5- 10 minutes. She does enjoy it very-very much in the beginning , but after sometimes she pushes me away and says she is getting hurt or it pains her
2006-08-14 09:56:17 · update #1
I actually dated a 43 girl that said she never climaxed before. So... there are some of them out there. I bought her a strong vibrator and some DVDs (on finding her G-spot). Check back with her in a few weeks and she got her first one! So... my advise is to openly discuss what her likes and dislikes, experiment with her, let her loosen up and then you might be the first.
I'm going out to see her in a few weeks and try this theory out. Wish me luck? ;-)
2006-08-14 09:50:02 · answer #1 · answered by MrSushiRoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not you--it's her. She could have a medical problem that prevents her from having an orgasm. Why don't you sit down and discuss this with her? Have you tried slowing things down--not rushing, to allow her time to have an orgasm?
2006-08-14 16:47:30 · answer #2 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spice it up a little bit by some foreplay...like oral
2006-08-14 16:45:34 · answer #3 · answered by lildevilgurl152004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Google: G-Spot
2006-08-14 17:18:19 · answer #4 · answered by L Jeezy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lick her clitoris till she screams or pushes you away, if you can do it for 3 hours, she should have a least two
2006-08-14 16:48:47 · answer #5 · answered by captcruzer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may not be you. Oyt of all the girls I have been with there was one girl that just did not orgasm, with anyone. It may be her.
2006-08-14 16:47:55 · answer #6 · answered by Tim 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to work on your technique, dude, and she won't be pushing you away anymore.
2006-08-14 21:58:06 · answer #7 · answered by WHITE TRASH ARMENIAN 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋