One of my friends is goin' out with this guy and he lies, has serious depression, and is really degrading to females. I don't want her to get hurt, but i don't thinkshe'll listen if i try to talk. what should i do?
2006-08-14 09:27:42 · 6 answers · asked by D L 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
send her an anonymous note and give some facts .. i hope she listens to you before its too late .. and if u know for sure that he is not the right guy .. maybe tell her and she is going to have more respect for u even though she doesnt want to listen to you this time .. u can do only what u can ..
2006-08-14 09:33:13 · answer #1 · answered by outdoor2003 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try, but most people have to find it out the hard way. I was telling my niece for over a year that her guy friend was using her. She was waiting around for him to get with her, but he never would. He just led her on. She would buy him things and do things for him. He played her. She is just now figuring it out that he is a mooching loser. She said several times before that she was threw with him, but she would go back to him. A sucker for punishment I guess. But until she stopped buying him things, he started being mean to her and I guess that woke her up.
2006-08-14 09:39:07 · answer #2 · answered by Xena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with the other person, it won't do you any harm to try, and if you can get her head around it now before she becomes really involved with him, then all the better. It'll hurt her more to really fall for him before realising all of this..
And it'll also show her that you care - which we know you do
2006-08-14 09:34:24 · answer #3 · answered by L ♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your mouth shut - if she is such a LOOOOOOOOOOOSER then maybe she likes how he treats her. After they break-up THEN point out that that is not the type of guy she wants, but for right now, SHUT UP.
2006-08-14 09:32:51 · answer #4 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her about him, and if she seems mad, tell her you just dont want her to get hurt and your care about her. She should really feel good once you've said that.
2006-08-14 09:33:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just try.... it's a friend's duty to try.
2006-08-14 09:32:06 · answer #6 · answered by MrSushiRoll 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋