1st date... or other fun things to do for dates?

Question

what would be some un things to do on your 1st date... or jsut dates in general... i live in the Twin citys... and frankly i have been haveing a hard time finding things to do... like going out to dinner might not be the best thing thats why i am having a hard time thinking about what i should do... or shoudl the guy be planning this all... lol

Answer 1

make a list of things u like (i am sure u already have one) .. and if the guy really likes u then he will be able to read this list and should plan eves when he can do all that with u .. its a good test to find out how much that guy knows u and wants u .. if its just that ONE thing he is after, the chances of him knowing u and what u like are very slim!

Answer 2

Sometimes the guy plans, but there are times he asks, "What would you like to do?" It's fun to be creative. I think it matters on what time of person your date is, and it being a first date, you should pick something that would help to get to know one another. Dinner can be boring, but what about a picnic at a park? Or walking through a museum? Or even an amusement park would help you get to know that person.

Answer 3

Well...the guy should be planning it....but I'll give you some ideas anyway. You can find things he enjoys doing that you like too and then do those things...that way it's enjoyable for both of you and fun! Or, you can go to the tourist part of town (or a part that you don't know much about) and just walk around and act like a tourist and get to know each other more.

Answer 4

Walk and talk. It's the best date ever. Don't plan anything, just go and see where the night takes you! That way, you've got nothing holding you back from getting to know that guy and seeing the potential for a 2nd date!

Answer 5

Who ever did the asking out should plan the date. Here are a few ideas, movies but bad to talk, barnes and noble if you want to talk and see what they are interested in. A walk in the park or anywhere. Coffee is good or there is always a hotel room and cut to the chase and just go for it.

Answer 6

Before I got married, I used to suggest to all my 1st dates that we meet up at a bar for drinks - and I would stay about an hour. If I liked them and felt a connection, longer, if I didn't like them I would leave within the hour, if not sooner. My dates always liked me and wanted to see me again - I was the one who called the shots and I turned most of them down. :)

Answer 7

Try some of these things:

Amusement park
Maybe go to a river or lake
Night club/comedy club
Movies
Dinner
Coffee/smoothie place/ice cream
Concert

Also try this site: Top 10 Twin Cities Experiences

http://twincities.citysearch.com/roundup/40071

Hope this helps :)

Answer 8

HAUNTED HOUSE...I went with my honey...awesome icebreaker...anything that is unusual is good...as long as it is an activity that gets the heart pumping...a scary movie...no date movies...guys HATE being imposed on emotionally...they love to feel like they're the hero...their rules (for now hunh?)

As for the BEST activity...wait until u get to know him...unless u cant wait & you're sure it'll work!

Answer 9

Fly to Niagara Falls for the night.

Answer 10

BE YOURSELF AND ASK PARTNER THEIR INTERESTS
AND IDEAS HAVE A NICE TIME : )

SUNSET STROLL AT THE BEACH/WATER FRONT?

SUNSET DINNER CRUISES ARE COOL,
ROMANTIC / PRICY
MAY RESERVE FOR SPECIAL OCCASIONS

QUIET RESTAURANTS/COFFEE HOUSES?
THINGS WHERE YOU CAN LOOK AT YOUR PARTNERS EYES, TALK AND GET TO KNOW EACH OTHER


WHAT DO YOU ENJOY?
WHAT CAN YOU AFFORD?
WHAT IS YOUR PREFERENCE ?

RELAXING/QUIET OR ACTIVE?

DOES TWIN CITY HAVE BEACH/WATER FRONTS?
QUIET BUT NOT ISOLATED

I THINK THE UNUSUAL ADVENTURES ARE MUTAULLY SHARED IDEAS AFTER YOU KNOW SOMEONE

HOT AIR BALLOON RIDE
SKYDIVING
CYCLING
PARASAILING
DANCING NOISY CLUBS