You see, I know I'm being a hipocrite, I stole my boyfriend from another chick. And for a while, he had two girlfriends. Now we've been going out, just me and him, for about 6 months. Then, he met this other girl, Rachel, and they bonded. He cares for her, more then he should as "just a friend" as he puts it. They go to this message board place, where I, i know its wrong!, have been spieing on them. She always "hangs" all over him, telling him she loves him and that hes a cool friend. They also Private message eachother. and I have no clue what they say in there. Heres the details, I am 15 and a half, I lost my virginity to a man 3 years older then me, nearly a year ago. It wasn't rape. My boyfriend, Kyle, is 15. and this chick, Rachel, is 13, and asking him to take her.."Greatest Gift" She even went so far as to ask him to ask me, If I wanted a three-some. Now, he asked me if it was ok if he had two girlfriends, Since Rachy is tired of being the "Other Girl".
2006-08-14 09:15:02 · 7 answers · asked by kaitenight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I said that I was washing my hands of the situation, that I wasn't gonna be the odd girl out, his "roadie" and that he was an independant person and has needs too. I also tried to get to know this rachel chick better, by sending her an IM, she is, and was a total *****. I'm already planning on telling him, that I don't need this sh!t after my old boyfriend, who just wanted me for my virginity, and that if I'm not good enough for him, he might as well just pick her anyway. Since shes so much better. I need an opinion on this, I am very mature for my age, and I don't need some 40 year old mom telling me off for having s3x at a young age. Thanks. :)
2006-08-14 09:22:02 · update #1
I guess the good news is that at least he asked you. What you need to decide is what you want in a relationship. Do you really want to share your boyfriends love with someone else, do you want to be in a three some? If you don't then you need to say so. To a large degree it already seems like you are sharing him since you are letting him hand out with this girl all the time. Personally I wouldn't put up with even that. I want someone who loves me and only me. So the question is what do you want? Decide what that answer is and then don't settle for less than what you deserve.
2006-08-14 09:24:10 · answer #1 · answered by rkrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only good thing about him asking you that question is that it will in turn open your eyes and make you ask yourself a question, "What am I doing with this guy?"
You say you are mature, and if you have been in this relationship for the past 6 months you need to find someone who is as serious about the relationship as you are.
Keep looking. You have a lot of time to pick and choose through these guys... haste makes waste.
2006-08-14 09:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by tieerdown 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok nicely 1st of all who does this female think of she is?? that's absolutly loopy! And why the heck are u appearing like this could probable be ok?? U could actually no longer care to have yet another guy positioned his palms al over ur female?? Wow and ya knw wht i does no longer b shocked if she has carried out something already with this guy...the shown fact that she could even evaluate shows that she's in elementary terms thinking bout herself and herself in elementary terms! Why do no longer u ask her how could she experience if u had intercourse wit somebody else... i'm optimistic she could have a topic with that! U could the two positioned ur foot down and tell her hell noo or bypass away this female on my own! 9 situations outta 10 the way she's talkin she prob messed with this guy already..and how do u knw this guy would not have any stds? and he or she could desire to attainable carry that decrease back to you? I dunno yet u rather ned to reevaluate ur relationship with this female..I hve a guy or maybe with how attracted i'm to somebody i could on no account enable yet another guy touch me in any respect!!
2016-12-17 10:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in the end it comes down to you. from what youve written above you dont sound fine with the situation. if thats the case drop him and find someone who respects you.
however if you want a 3 some then its an ideal opportunity
2006-08-14 09:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by smutmonkey71 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like an immature relationship, leave him.
you should never want to be with a man who left a girl for you, or cheated on one for you - because he'll do it TO you later
2006-08-14 09:21:16 · answer #5 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats not cool
2006-08-14 09:22:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow....
2006-08-14 09:22:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋