I found out that my boyfriend of 2 + years has been dating people he met on craigslist. He has been trading emails with females. He tried to make me think I was crazy and the whole cheating thing is a figment of my overactive imagination. He recently confessed that he is sorry and when he told me he was with his family he was really with these girls. He claims nothing sexual went on...but how do trust someone who has already proven themself to be a liar. I am an emotional wreck. I cant believe that he would do this to me. I desperately want to fogive and move on but I...I...really want the son of a B**** to hurt.
Any on advice on how to move on?
2006-08-14 09:08:58 · 9 answers · asked by dionne m 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i will try cut all contact with him. no phone no email. go out with your friends..and ***** about him to her..( just let it out of your system) ..Try not to be alone that much, because you will have time to think about him.. And find someone else to date.. I know people called it rebound but I called it healing... Believe, I 've been thru this, it will get easier..
2006-08-14 09:17:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can perfectly understand what you're going through, when you love someone so much, you just feel like doing anything and everything in your power for that someone, when you realize he was cheating on you, all this is misked with hate, anger, and love, the result of these three gets you to a depression....
I know you cannot stop from thinking about it, but i would suggest you talk to someone you really trust and does understand you, Hating him will not make you feel better, it will make you feel worst, with time you'll be able to realize and know the answer on how to heal your heart.....
I'm really sorry for what happened
bye!
2006-08-14 09:20:47 · answer #2 · answered by Lesley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you write the soundrel a letter and tell him how you feel, or just confront him and give him one last piece of you're mind. Forget the revenge and hate factor, and try to convince yourself that you're above that. Karma will take care of his actions. I suggest you take as long as you need to get over the hurt, but dont take forever. Put yourself out there, good things will happen. But be wiser.
2006-08-14 09:21:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once a cheater...always a cheater. If I were you I would dump him and never look back. He doesnt disserve you...its that simple.
As far as moving on...there really are alot of guys out there who you can trust you just have to be patient and you will find one.
2006-08-14 09:18:39 · answer #4 · answered by ManWithThePlan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You grab your s*** and your keys and you leave!! It hurts I hear you I have been there and never thought this guy would do that to me ..he did I never looked back and still am angry about it. Move on hunney don't bother to look back he did it once he will do it again!!
2006-08-14 09:16:51 · answer #5 · answered by vtlovie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what my gf did you can just either call him and wait for him to answer and hang up then start to talk to him and just leave. because my gf did that and she really hurt me. that night i cried so much i fell down about 30 stairs when i was almost done crying.
2006-08-14 09:16:20 · answer #6 · answered by i am not stupid!! 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you shouldn't FORGIVE him.. what he did was wrong
but you do need to move on and just .. delete him out of your life.. but if you really really want him to "hurt", you can try becoming friends with his next gf, and then later telling her about how he cheats with his girlfriend's and so on.. hehe sabotage!
2006-08-14 09:14:46 · answer #7 · answered by orange juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are serious? at least he's not gay...get over it or start going out with girls!
2006-08-14 09:21:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you find out, please let me know, because I am in the same boat.
2006-08-14 09:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by lindaminato 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋