thanx for ur anwsers
2006-08-14 09:05:18 · 13 answers · asked by ?...!*!butterfly princess!*!...? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I urgently advise you to seek out a counselor posthaste.
2006-08-14 09:08:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're in a complicated place. i can't think of wearing on a protracted distance relationship that spans diverse continents. To be particularly user-friendly with you, i'd wreck issues off. That in all probability isn't what you opt for to hearken to, yet you will discover somebody nearer to you who could make you purely as satisfied. that doesn't advise that I decrease value the happiness your boyfriend has given to you, yet once you have already long previous months with out seeing him and you're observing yet another 12 months... it is an rather long term. Why is it taking him see you later to get his passport? Has he had criminal issues in the previous that are combating him from getting it? it is going to only take a pair of month...
2016-10-02 01:58:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone experiences a bit of "cold feet". The ONLY way to be sure this is right is to seek God. If you have Jesus as your personal savior, then spend some quality time in prayer with him about this. Jesus spent the entire night in prayer before choosing his 12 disciples. I strongly urge you to take this decision with the same seriousness. (I wish I had.) From experience, marriage is work, not easy for anyone. But it can be worth it, especially if you are both willing to make it the best it can be. I don't believe any marriage will last without God at the center, so if you are serious about this then you both need to seek God FIRST, make him the center of your lives and your relationship. Make sure you have him in your heart, and he will make sure you have the best desires of your heart. And if you do go through with it, don't ever even think the word divorce. Make it work. Jesus gives us joy unspeakable and is our helper and our friend. Seek him, and he will guide you on the best path. God bless you!
2006-08-14 09:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by Matt B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunetly, nobody can help you in this matter, but your own heart and brain. If you love him, don't doubt it. If you two are happy together, and in love, I don't see the reason why that should not continue when you guys get married.
Anyways, who said you have to marry him if he proposed you and you said yes?
You don't have to get married right away after the proposal. Just give it time, and enjoy your relationship and you being engaged to the guy you love and who loves you.
2006-08-14 09:11:49 · answer #4 · answered by miraob86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are already having doubts then you should get out before you get even more deeper into the relationship. The longer you wait the harder it will be to let go. Its normal to be scared but there should be no doubt when you accept someones marriage proposal....
2006-08-14 09:14:10 · answer #5 · answered by ManWithThePlan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're having second thoughts and want to delay a bit. If he loves you and is a good guy, he'll support you. If he doesn't agree with you, then I'd dump him for good.
Marriage is a big step. You're smart to voice your concern. Better now than 5 years from now after a couple of children.
TX Guy
2006-08-14 09:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have ANY doubts at all, reconsider. Especially if it brought you here to ask us about it. If it's THAT much on your mind, there must be a problem.
Honey I'm in the same situation right now, and your post inspired me to look deeper into what's bothering me about my relationship. I think we both need a good counselor.
2006-08-14 09:10:59 · answer #7 · answered by Ade 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call off the engagement tell your for sure and explain this to him. I mean do not leave him in the dark.
2006-08-14 09:13:43 · answer #8 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
then call off the engagement until you know what i is you really want
2006-08-14 09:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why didnt you think about this before you accepted his proposal?
2006-08-14 09:08:42 · answer #10 · answered by misstrell504 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋