I have a close guy friend who i grew up with (he knew me b4 i had breast) and now we ocasionally have sex and we talk on the phone everyday. He has baggage an ex-wife with two kids. He always tell me that he dosent want me to catch feelings, he also always tells me that he mess with me real tuff and he dont wanna hurt me. i know he has a lot of female friends, but i still like him and i know he likes me too. We are extreemly comfortable with each other to the point where he tells me about them. And another thing is i have a girlfriend. Its funny cause im a jealous person but i havent realy been with him,but i notice that he can be a lil jealous he was mad when my girlfirend put hickies on me, but im not sure how i should handle this situation? any advice is welcome
2006-08-14 08:58:34 · 14 answers · asked by tyramarie26 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So what you are saying is your are bi-sexual. He is not is not jealous the way you think. He's upset that you are involved with a woman. As far as your relationship with him goes, listen to what he's saying. He enjoys the relationship the way it is and doesn't want anything more out of it. You are his BUD. You have to decide if you can keep offering yourself to him on his terms and not get caught up. This is probably the most painful relationsip you've had, because you can't have what you want (him).
2006-08-14 09:06:08 · answer #1 · answered by Dancer3d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby girl, are you sure your doing the right thing for yourself? he's a player. even though he spilled out some of his personal secrets, doesn't mean he'll change his spots. ask yourself, what good will come out from this? where will this take me? they are all dead-end roads. think clearly, then you'll see a better solution.
2006-08-14 16:10:23 · answer #2 · answered by harmony 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop cheating on your girlfriend.
You need to sit down and talk with him and if you two arn't going to be a couple stop fooling around, you two are just going to ruin a friendship if you continue like this
2006-08-14 16:04:22 · answer #3 · answered by attila 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ever think of contacting Dr. Phil?
2006-08-14 16:17:07 · answer #4 · answered by paul m 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You said be4 you had boo-bees are you a guy? if so why do you have a girlfriend if you were Bi. you would not have any boo-bees so whats the problem he is Bi you are a gay DUD that has yet to except his sexuality. Good Luck.
2006-08-14 16:13:50 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
My suggestion to you is therapy.
You need it. If you can't see that this guy is nothing but a loser, then you're the one who need help.
TX Guy
2006-08-14 16:05:22 · answer #6 · answered by txguy8800 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just really need to figure out what you want
2006-08-14 16:02:58 · answer #7 · answered by LISA M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else and stop having sex with him.
2006-08-14 16:02:35 · answer #8 · answered by doc 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop messing with him especially if you have a g/f.
2006-08-14 16:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by turtle_rosie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he's just you friend with benefit why get jealous
2006-08-14 16:04:05 · answer #10 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋