his best friend, who i have been with before drives me home every day after school and hangs out at my house for a few hours. im starting to like him and he likes me, wat shood i do?? i really like him but in the back of my mind I keep thinking of my bf. i dont know wat to do. or wat i want someone please help!
2006-08-14 08:58:18 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
ur just a cheater in the making. break up with ur bf or cut off interactions with this guy.. even if u havent cheated or dont plan on it, ur putting urself in the situation and thats not good. would u like if ur bf was getting rides home from some girl he liked? u know what u have to do, even if its hard do it.. it will be worse if u forever have the rep as a cheater
2006-08-14 09:04:51 · answer #1 · answered by <3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a trap and you're falling right in!!! Think for a second. . . if this guy is Best Friends with your B/F don't you think how you act infront of him will somehow find it's way back to your man? He could be spying on you. You should be careful what you do, what you talk about cause it could be a test.
Also, think about how this seperation will affect you in the long run. Can you handle being apart or will your heart wander to the next person that shows you attention that you crave? Don't be ashamed to admit you need someone in the flesh to hold you, to laugh with you, to go see a movie with on a friday night. It's okay. Just try hard to make up your mind as to which one you want before you do something hasty that you can't take back.
This exact thing has happened to me a few years ago. I played around with the new guy, until I desperately missed the old one and went back to him. Good luck to you. I know you'll make the best decision for you.
2006-08-14 09:12:28 · answer #2 · answered by melbel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if the guy admits they have a difficulty and is prepared to do some thing about it, it is a good signal. All temptation should be out of attain for him. meaning someway fixing the comp. so he can no longer chat or seem at porn and discover some thing else to fill his time or he will go proper back to searching at it, besides as they get extra effective and extra effective at hiding what they have been searching at, the web makes it really person-friendly for adult men to seem at porn for loose, besides as searching at courting information superhighway sites, they are continually one click faraway from a porn website, and now they actually have downloadable video clips that are rather affordable. it is an inexpensive thrill that adult men get, and many times they don't care who they damage at the same time as doing this. A self gratification for one human being, selfish and underminding to there realtionship with the different human being. i comprehend because my husband ought to particularly seem at porn video clips, pictures over rather a lot some thing else. i think unhappy for him that he receives no exhilaration in having a actual realtionship with someone it is ideal in the front of him and ought to particularly drool over some thing on the comp.
2016-12-06 13:10:28 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can find a way to afford it, move out and live on your own while you sort out how you really feel. You seem like a young person yet, and I don't think you want to spend the rest of your life miserable because of a bad choice.
Good luck!
2006-08-14 09:13:01 · answer #4 · answered by Tigger 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta think about it, think wisely coz you might regret it later.
Take a few days off from hanging with his best friend, and try to realize do you love your boyfriend still, or you're falling in love with this other guy.
2006-08-14 09:05:02 · answer #5 · answered by miraob86 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are young is it tough to maintain a relationship over time, so you might want to consider dating other people.
2006-08-14 09:05:06 · answer #6 · answered by The Big Shot 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋