i was dating this guy and after he met me his ex told him he was preggie we still dated n had sexual relations now he left me for her thinking its best but he still wants to keep contact with me b/c he still likes me and he really doesn't want to let me go...what should i do?
2006-08-14 08:56:42 · 17 answers · asked by milliroentgens 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok well since i was done wrong n he is using me...do you think it would be bad for me to get back at him and use him just as he did me? Is that mean n selfish to do?
2006-08-14 09:16:28 · update #1
well, honey...if you cant see that this is a classic case of "stringing you along", i dont know if you can be helped.
Quite honestly, he's prolly keeping on on the line, just in case it doesnt work out with the ex.
2006-08-14 09:02:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mark R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are his backup or a sex toy. Either way u are always second. I think if u like making lv use him if not find some else.
Either way find someone else and u too use him like a backup till someone nice come across..........
Well! what, he is doing is selfish thing. I am telling u to defend and respect urslf. U invested in him and he did wrong to u, right!. His intentions were not gd right from beginning. Now u know he used to rather abused u. So its not selfish if u take his support for now till a right/better person come across. U earned that. U seemed gd in heart. Take comfort in finding a refuge ""temporarily"".
2006-08-14 09:07:05 · answer #2 · answered by VJ 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him to go step in the wind. He is not good enough for you because he is using you I think. I mean why would he want you on the side. Tell him your a one man woman and thats it and you do not give men a second chance when they leave you for another woman.
2006-08-14 09:06:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
leave him alone
i dont usually say this
but check this
u was the rebound chick to get either his x jeolous or to distract him from the x
now he s back with her
thats what he wanted all along
now he wants to be in contact because of sex and someone to talk too
he s tryin to pimp it
2006-08-14 09:02:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone else. He will probably live with her & want you on the side.
In response to your 2nd question, that wouldnt be you using him hon, because hes still using you/stringing you along, youd be playing into his hands & doing exactly what he wants, to have sex with you on the side.
2006-08-14 09:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Ashley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get rid of him. You'll find someone better! If he really didn't want to let you go, he'd stay with you, not go back to her!
2006-08-14 09:05:23 · answer #6 · answered by chrihutch 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away. fast. and far.
Look, you are asking if you should assist on this guy cheating on his baby's momma. Don't be that woman.
And even if he says he will leave her and come to you, I would worry, because how do you trust him?
2006-08-14 09:02:09 · answer #7 · answered by Qwyrx 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he dump you to go to his ex OK let me see you dump his a** up how dare he do that and your still talk to him move on and stop talking to him ignore him
2006-08-14 09:01:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call Jerry Springer right now and see when he can get you on his show!!!
2006-08-14 09:00:52 · answer #9 · answered by Diggs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he is that hot keep contact with him, maybe you will get back together....
2006-08-14 09:01:09 · answer #10 · answered by Attitude Girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋