I need this explained to me a little better because like most men I can't understand the female mind at all. The "evil" Friendzone that most guys dread being put into. I've never known one guy the escape this place. I often hear that the best relationships are the one's where the man & woman are friends + lovers. The thing is when most guys are placed as "just friends" not to be confuse w/ friends w/ benefits, they are not looked upon by the female has a future boyfriend. Most women say that sleeping or dating their "Friend" would ruined their friendship. I just want to know what seperates you ladies "Friends" from the "Boyfriends" and why? I've known many guys stuck in this evil "Friendzone" while the lady dates some jerk or other guy. Maybe i'm wrong about this but I've been in the friendzone before. I'm saying if a guy is good enough to be your friend, then why not give the guy a shot at a relationship? You're already getting along and enjoying eachother's company. Let me know?
2006-08-14 08:45:17 · 2 answers · asked by Vesdog! 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You're right. If they're good enough to be my friend than they are good enough to be more. But until they speak up and tell me how they feel, they will remain in the 'friend zone'.
2006-08-14 08:51:56 · answer #1 · answered by renee1724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you want to make every girl you meet your girlfriend ? Haven't you met girls sometimes that you thought were nice but you didn't see them as your girlfriend ? Haven't you ever seen a girl you would sleep with but you wouldn't make her your girlfriend ? Not everybody has the chemistry needed to become boyfriend/girlfriend. Even friends with benefits will probably never become the boyfriend. That's just how it is. That certain spark or chemistry needed is not there for a committed relationship. Just because you think someone is nice or good enough to sleep with does not mean they have to become your boyfriend.
2006-08-14 08:55:29 · answer #2 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋