ok well im 16 but i dont like guys my own age im only atracted to men in there mid 20s to ealry 30s am i normal? i guess the reason i like them is there maturety
2006-08-14 08:35:52 · 36 answers · asked by stacy_1990au 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
They are too old for you. find someone your own age.
2006-08-14 08:39:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls mature faster than men. Once you are 18 and of legal age you shouldn't date a guy an older than 4 yrs. older than you.
Any older than that, then you are getting into generation gaps, etc.... and men older than that probably have a lot issues, such as, they may have been married and divorced. Or have a kid or they like younger women to be able to control them.......
If you must date. Date your own age only for now. .Whats the hurry? You have a whole life ahead of you. What do you want with anolder man? A sugar daddy?
2006-08-14 08:43:30 · answer #2 · answered by fullofsunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am with you girl I was 17 when my boyfriend was 38 and i was with him for 10 years I married him and all but felt He was the same way... Things didn't work out and now I have a a realationship with this man that is 60 and I am 30 so age is only a number to me but don't get the perverts confussed you should know a perv asap good luck....
2006-08-14 08:43:12 · answer #3 · answered by BabyDoll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no such thing as normal. Everything is natural because it happens in Nature. Some women like older men because they need a strong father figure, others just like older men because they are older. You first need to figure out WHY you like them, then decide what is best for you.
Now understand that not all older men are more mature, common myth. But either way, you aren't different from any other woman on the planet... just look at Mick Jagger, David Bowie, Sean Connery, etc...
2006-08-14 08:41:50 · answer #4 · answered by matt_tarwater 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It may because most 16 yr old boys are just dumb acting and silly .Girls mature faster and are smarter than boys of the same age.I was the same as you at 16,but it can get you in deeper than you are ready for.A mature man of 30 shouldn't even be thinking about a 16 yr old girl,hes defiantly got problems and cant relate to a mature woman his age . Older guys expect sex its simple,and they will do what ever they need to do or say to get it.Are you ready to be used? Are you ready to not go places he can go because hes over 21.You are 16 you only have a couple of years to go through this try to be patient,I know its difficult,but your self worth and self respect are worth the wait.
2006-08-14 08:47:42 · answer #5 · answered by Yakuza 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ouch. When my computer was loading your question up I was hoping you were going to say you were 18+. But ofcourse that's not the case. To someone who was a few years older I'd just say it's mostly a sexual preference. I really suggest you try to like guys more your own age at this point in your life. Even if you don't take to it, atleast try. And I don't mean this in a rude or offensive way, but would I be right to say that you either have a history with abuse or Daddy issues?
2006-08-14 08:40:08 · answer #6 · answered by Olivia B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is nothing wrong with that. i would wait until im 18 and over to act out these feelings, because if you do it now, then someone's going to jail.. but if ur over 18 then its not a big deal, and yes it it normal.v and you will be surprised. lots of men who are 20 siomething and 30 something may be more mature than they guys ur age, but lots of them are still vety childish. have you ever heard a saying, people really don't change too much? its true.
2006-08-17 09:06:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a guy in his mid 20's or 30's is willing to date you that means there is something wrong with them and you should stay away from them. They are way too old for you. You can like them but dont hang around them.
2006-08-14 08:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by JustMe 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes older men are more mature....but you are 16 yrs old! Any 30 yr old man interested in you is a pervert and needs to spend some time in jail.
2006-08-14 08:42:23 · answer #9 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with you as most females mature faster then men. and there is nothing wrong at all with liking anyone you want to. Now when it comes to having a sexual relationship wait until you are 18 because any man that you have sex with that is an adult and your still a minor could land him in prison. if you love a man then wait until your legal age to be with an adult becofe letting it become sexual.
2006-08-14 08:46:33 · answer #10 · answered by Savage 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's cool, I'm 25 and have always liked older men, there is nothing wrong with it. But, since your sixteen, you might want to wait a bit before really diving into something with an older guy.
2006-08-14 08:40:01 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋