I've often heard and been taught in human studies, psych, dating groups, girlfriends, etc. that for most guys, intimacy/sex is mostly a physical rush, a high, while for girls, it's a lot more emotional, but I'm wondering, to what degree? If you could do it in two different cups of something, how much of either?
I'm asking the question because I'm genuinely wanting to appreciate a lass's different point of view, not so I can "get an edge," besides, I'm the "other" category anyway; I need the real life connection or otherwise the physical just doesn't work for me.
But what of most girls?
2006-08-14 08:28:35 · 12 answers · asked by savage_insight 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'd say if there's a lot on a woman's mind, she can't concentrate on sex. So, I believe my mind needs foreplay before my body does. I know that sounds weird, but if you can't get your mind into it, it doesn't work as well and isn't as enjoyable for both of you.
2006-08-14 08:36:44 · answer #1 · answered by Lady J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really, it depends on the sex.....if I am hot & just need a nut.....or some D!@# then I would call someone who i am physically attraced to and F!@# his brains out...in which case it would be 95% physical....5% emotional.
Now if I was really feeling a guy & the emoitions were there great but there would still need to be physical attraction or I wont be down with it...in which case would be 50% emoitional & 50% physical.
I mean you better be attractive I dont care how much ai like you as a person if you are not attractive to me there wont be any sexual emotion!
2006-08-14 15:36:58 · answer #2 · answered by nmaponte 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I have tried to have a non emotional thing, and it just didn't work for me. I had to fake it, and just wanted it over with the minute it started. When I am emotionally involved with someone, it feels better and it's more real. To tell the god's honest truth the guy I had to fake it with was about two inches longer than my man, and my man can get my juices flowing by just looking at me a certain way. There is something about knowing that someone has such strong feelings for you that they are willing to do anything or go anywhere just for you, and to have the same feelings for that same person, is an absolute turn on.
2006-08-14 15:46:08 · answer #3 · answered by Danielle W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
women are all not the same so you will get different answers for this question because not all women are the same same as men...some women have more of an emotional feelings about sex and other stuff and then the other half as a phsical and emotional at the same time see either way it all different or the same is hard to explain...i hope i helped a lil bit
2006-08-14 15:35:40 · answer #4 · answered by April 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me personally it is about 75% emotional and 25% physical.
2006-08-14 15:31:48 · answer #5 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the relationship. Most of the time, it's 80% physical for me.
2006-08-14 15:46:29 · answer #6 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say 60% emotional and 40% physical
2006-08-14 15:33:01 · answer #7 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most of us need to be connected to a guy before having sex with them. After we do it makes us feel that much closer.
2006-08-14 15:32:53 · answer #8 · answered by renee1724 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
75% emotional and 20% physical
2006-08-14 15:33:24 · answer #9 · answered by tawanna h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude, it sounds like u do need a real life. learn how to speak english while ua re at it, lol jk.
2006-08-14 15:47:46 · answer #10 · answered by sesso*E 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋