Does playing hard to get work? Do men want you more?

Answer 1

Depends on the guy. Sometimes you gotta give a little then take it away and so on. Youll know when he's hooked, lol

Answer 2

I guess that would depend on the guy. For me, no it does not. I'm not the aggressive type. If there is someone I like I will do "the flirt thing" and look for a response. If I get the idea that she is interested I will continue. If a girl is "playing hard to get" I guess I would never know because I would think she's not interested. Reading minds is one of my weaknesses. If a woman wants or needs something the best way to get it from me is to be straight forward. You wouldn't have to be aggressive , but to play any kind of game wouldn't get you very far here. I think some women feel they need to play hard to get because they don't want to look easy. I think there's a difference between being easy and PLAYING hard to get. Having respect for yourself and having morals doesn't make you a beeoch and it' not the same as playing hard to get.
one mans opinion

Answer 3

Me personally. I understand a woman wants to be "chased" but after one or two times of playing that gets old. For me and most men that deal with different kinds of woman all the time we don't even bother wasting our time with women like that. She's already telling you what kinda woman she is, and what she brings to the table. Games...Just games. So guys like me look the other way and find serious woman not girls.

Answer 4

It definitely depends on the guy. Does the dude know you at all or did you just randomly meet? If you just met, I wouldn't recommend it b/c guys will think you're not into them or are a *****. Just takes things slowly once you start going out... no french kissing on first date and such; this is the hard to get that is more fun. You have the power, they have the urge... lead 'em on babe! Have fun!

Answer 5

Men usually love more and more play. Is like being for 3 days in the desert without water and when reaching the first bar you ask for chips to extend your thirst, so you get bigger pleasure when then water comes

Answer 6

you can only play hard to get for so long because then the man begins to think you are a tease and he wont want to mess with you at all so only do it for 2 to 3 days

Answer 7

depends how hard you play to get, if you spray someone in the face with mace when they try and kiss you then thats playing too hard but if you tease and wait a week or 2 before sex then thats a turn on. make it a challenge and you get respect, make it impossible and no-one wants you.

Answer 8

If you read the questions you'll notice only women "think" we like it osmetimes. Read the guys, we DON'T, we just do it for a little to let the girl have her fun, but in the end it's god damn stupid and a waste of time.....Why spend time being chased instead of using that time to be with that person. YOu don't have to play hard to get to not be easy.

Go out with the person just don't give it all out but go out and get to know him better. But NO, playing HARD TO GET IS RETARDED!!!

Read this ladies: IT"S RETARDED!!! Perosnally, I don't keep up with that since I am not gonna be chasing anyone, no time for that. And if they ever do and I really like her or wanna show her how stupid it is, I let he rplay, I follow and then when she comes to me I play hard to get. That is funny and they never expect it!!

Ask this girl , this night at a club she palyed hard to get in the begining, then it was my turn and guess who ended up runing to her hotel room to satisfy herself all by her lonesome???

Answer 9

I think it doesn matter for us. If you re hot, you re hot and thats it.U can play hard to get, but if i get bored of that game, i'm out. If u like the guy, there's no need of playing games unless u want him to look for a more available girl.

Answer 10

it's really not about playing hard to get, just be yourself and try not to look so hard for a guy that may or may not be interested. if it's supposed to happen it will.