How old or young were you the first time you had intercourse, do you still speak to that person? I was 13, I talk to him sometimes but I m engaged now. How young is too young?
2006-08-14 08:08:58 · 76 answers · asked by dreamgirl4myboy 4 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
Maybe 13 is too young for most people. I educated myself about sex and I felt I was ready we were together for 5 years. If I could go back I dont know if I would do it differenly I learned a lot, I was always very mature for my age. I am a christian now I would discourage any girl, its better to wait for marriage the best sex is with someone you love and who TRULY loves you back.
2006-08-14 08:33:07 · update #1
Im 21 now and I abstain.
2006-08-14 08:38:59 · update #2
13 is young, but these days it seems like they are getting younger and younger. I was 14 my first time, now I am 23 and I still talk to him. It is amazing to see how much we have both changed from when we were young, now I see how immature we both were back then.
2006-08-14 10:52:58 · answer #1 · answered by Andy's Mom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
One month before I turned 19. I forget exactly how old he was.....I think he was 25? I have no idea where he is these days (I'm 35 now, so it was a long time ago!) but if he was around I imagine we'd still be friends. We spoke and were friendly the last time I saw him.
I definatly think 13 is too young. You need to be old enough to handle the emotional sides of a relationship, responsible about birth control and capable of handling it if something went wrong (pregnancy or STD). A 13 year old is none of those things. I think, for most people, about 18 to 22 years old would be about right.
2006-08-14 08:25:41 · answer #2 · answered by momma2mingbu 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 16 and it was with my bf of 2 years. He didn't pressure and I have no regrets. We were married for 2 years (later) and even though we aren't together now I wish him the best and know that he does me. We have seen each other around and always had a good laugh and great memories. I think that 13 is too young and in retrospect 16 was probably too young also.
2006-08-14 09:07:57 · answer #3 · answered by confused by court order 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
WOW engaged at 13. i feel that personally 13 is a tad bit young to be engaged or engaging in sexual intercourse. i was 19 1/2 when i lost my virginity and i am not with the guy any longer. i am 28 and i have just gotten engaged. time is of the essence. maybe you should explore your option and focus on school and friends and other things 13 year olds do before rushing to get married and have sex... just my opinion
2006-08-14 08:37:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 16 and yes i still talk to him. He is my husband. We have been married for 6 and together an amazing 11 years. I think 13 is too young. They need to be worrying about growing up and having a life.
2006-08-14 08:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by housewives5 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was 17 and i thought i was ready but then i realized i only did it because everyone else was.... Wish i waited. i do talk to this guy every now and then..... we still pretty cool..
What is too young? depends on your level of maturity. but sorry hun i do think 13 is too young, only because there is so much other things in life you sohould be worried about at that age. I look at it like this, if you aren't old enough to drive a car by
yourself, you're not old enough to be driven! but seriously there comes a lot of RESPONSIBILITIES when engaging in sex, be 100% sure you are ready and please take every known precaution and protect yourself, sex isn't worth dying over or getting ill over..
2006-08-14 08:15:52 · answer #6 · answered by Tyana 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
20
2006-08-14 08:11:46 · answer #7 · answered by ndtaya 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I was sixteen years old my first time and I think that's too young so you should know anything younger is to the extreme. And at this point I'm engaged as well; but I do see him every now and then and we speak and talk a little while and that's it.
2006-08-14 08:18:43 · answer #8 · answered by inaijah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
25
2006-08-14 08:13:53 · answer #9 · answered by theplayeroutthereallyongnamedog 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I lost my virginity at 15. I don't regret it. Although I DON'T talk to that man, I don't regret it. I'm a sexual person, and believe sex is natural, and beautiful.
You are never too young to have sex. You just have to be READY, TRULY READY.
If you are ready to have sex at 12, there's nothing wrong with that.
I wanted to have sex when I was 12. I know now that I'm older 12 sounds REALLY young, but if you really think about it, it's not that young. I was emotionally, and physically ready.
At 12, I was masturbating, and wanting to have sex with men, so why not? Unfortuneatly it didn't happen until i was 15, but i don't mind.
2006-08-14 08:24:20 · answer #10 · answered by Stella 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋