My ex has told me repeatedly that it's over between us but he's constantly calling and has even interrupted me during dinner with another guy. He says he still loves me but can't be with me and yet he won't leave me alone. What's up with that?
2006-08-14 07:54:41 · 18 answers · asked by lovelee1 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He doesn't know what he wants. These types of relationships are pretty unhealthy and cause way too much stress. It is easy when you get lonely to want to go back to the last thing you had. He wants back in his comfort zone. Once he gets there and is no longer lonely he doesn't have much interest in you. Basically, you are being a rebound girl for yourself over and over again. I say cut him off completely. That is the only way to allow you to move on with a new relationship and force him to move on as well.
2006-08-14 08:01:40 · answer #1 · answered by mildmanneredclarkkent64 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ignoring won't artwork with a real stalker. They not at all get the hint. basically tell him to no longer situation you. Get a courtroom order if he's unquestionably stalking. I wager you're basically paranoid. Have campus police escort you.
2016-09-29 06:30:27 · answer #2 · answered by gangwer 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he wants to leave you hanging incase he cant get someone else. If he really does care about you but is just being a confused guy, and if you want him back, Play his game, dont answer his calls, act like you dont have time for him but occasionally ask him for a favor or flirt, just a little! to keep him wondering. If you really want him gone, tell him flat out, go away and dont have contact at all. Change your number if you have to.
2006-08-14 08:15:23 · answer #3 · answered by ams3651 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God I thought I was the only one with that problem LOL I told my ex buzz off and move on. If that does not work maybe changee your number. Ex boyfriends are just pains. He is just mad cause he knows he was being an idiot and he feels bad and want you back! He does not love you he is lonely since he broke up with you. Sorry you are having the problem, not all are like that remember that!
2006-08-14 08:02:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pretty easy he's not in love with you but doesn't want to loose control over you, he will always bother you especially if you find someone else, I don't think there's any love lost there even though he might confuse his jealousy for love - don't you make that mistake - stay away from him and tell him to stop calling you - get on with your own life - you deserve to!!!
2006-08-14 08:00:49 · answer #5 · answered by Auntie Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he obviously misses you. Give him a break...i don't mean go out with him again...nothing like tht, but try and understand how he feels. He probably really does still love you and I'm sure he just misses you. The worst thing you can do is be mean to him though. Be careful.
2006-08-14 07:59:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He really do love you and if he be with you he know he is going to cheat on you and he don't want to hurt you, and he feels bad when he sees you with another guy. You should listen to that sound called Freeze by LL cool J and lyfe. It seems that what he is trying to do "freeze" you so he can do what he want to do, and for you to wait for him to come back to you. But you cant do that because life goes on and you just cant wait for no man. you would be miserable. But good luck ma, hope i helped some.
2006-08-14 08:07:10 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Their just dumb! lol no seriously I think that he still loves you and all but he wants to move on. He's jealous of the other dudes you hang around and might feel threatend.Just try sitting him down and having a heart to heart conversation
2006-08-14 08:01:57 · answer #8 · answered by ♥QT♥ 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He has no one else to screw atm, and is obviously being a control freak...(interrupting your dinner with another guy). Tell him it's over and not to call you anymore.
2006-08-14 08:00:05 · answer #9 · answered by Isabella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is territory thing.. just like dog, they like to mark their spaces so other won't come near... in case they want to come back again.. It is ego stuff..he doen't want the commitment but he doesn't want anyone to have you either.. Until he find someone else or you totally tell him to f..off , he will keep doing this
2006-08-14 08:01:42 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋