2006-08-14 07:51:12 · 11 answers · asked by killer b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What did they do to betray me? Did they eat the last peanut butter cup, or sleep with my brother?
2006-08-14 07:57:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was in a 13 year relationship, and was betrayed. I don't think that you should stay with some one that id not going to be true to you. If they are looking somewhere else then they are not happy with you, and will always keep looking to find something better in their eyes. I would just toss in the towel now, before you put in any more time with someone that don't really love you and get out there and find the person that will.
2006-08-14 14:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by Just Me 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's really hard to continue on with someone after they betrayed u but the only way u will know if u can do it or not is by trying to leave them alone and seeing what happens....if u can't bare to leave them even after all that bs they put u through then obviously ur feelings are too strong and u may have to find a way to look past what they did and give them another chance with u...u have to decide if it's worse living with them or without them in the long run
2006-08-14 15:00:14 · answer #3 · answered by babygirla718 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope because in the first place he evidently doesn't love you and in the second place you would never trust him again so the relationship would end sooner or later and he might blame it on you for being too controlling - then you'd have wasted more time and be even more heart sore - forget him, move on - if he can't respect you then he doesn't deserve you!!!
2006-08-14 14:58:21 · answer #4 · answered by Auntie Alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say yes.because im in the same situation now,and if the individual means real buisness about u then u should forgive them and move on with your lives.I'm very glad i chose to forgive him,I couldn't be more happier.Always remember this,is that love is unconditional and it dont leave overnight.You would only make yourself miserable if you dont follow your heart!
2006-08-14 15:07:21 · answer #5 · answered by tracy w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No...if the betrayal were something like getting cheated on, I'd never forgive them. I'd never be able to trust them again, and always wonder if it were going to happen again. They would become just that... someone I LOVED, past tense.
2006-08-14 15:01:55 · answer #6 · answered by crazyhorse3477 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can I hear a fat Hell No! What are you kiddn. Betrayal is betrayal. Once the trust is gone forget it.
2006-08-14 15:04:20 · answer #7 · answered by doesitmatter 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, you cannot. the trust is gone. my bf ran off w/my ex-dtr in law & tore up my son's marraige. what a loser,both of them. she kept him around for a couple of months & the kicked him out. could i take him back? why would i want to?
2006-08-14 14:57:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no i couldn't that would hurt me emotionally and mentally and i would feel if he really love me and cared about me and wanted this relationship to go on and on he would have not hurt me i'll just have to hurt until my heart heals
2006-08-14 14:58:06 · answer #9 · answered by ♥*♥Bahamian Gal♥*♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Um, no. I deserve better than that.
2006-08-14 14:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by nomucatoday 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋