Specifically, one has more of a sex drive than the other...which leads the first to having some frustration when they feel there's not enough sex going on.
2006-08-14 07:48:03 · 9 answers · asked by Tabatha 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If there is truly "love" there, then it needs to be openly talked about. No name calling or bad mouthing, just honest talk. Ofcourse, then comes the compromise. Meaning, both parties have to give in a little so that the other is comfortable in the relationship.
There is also more to sex than just intercourse and this might be an avenue that would help each party be a little more giving.
2006-08-14 07:54:53 · answer #1 · answered by evrrdy70 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all different that way I am sorry to say. My wife is a once a week kind of person and I am a three times a week kind of person. We all have a drive meter and that's the way it is. Try a little self pleasure in the middle of the week lets say for the sake of the discussion. That will take the pressure off the one with the stronger sex drive and not make the one with the slower sex drive feel guilty and like they "should" be more "giving" even though it wouldn't be natural. Guilt is a terrible thing...avoid it as much as you can.
2006-08-14 07:55:30 · answer #2 · answered by Thomas 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To get on the same page you have to be completely open and honest with each other. You have to tell each other what you like or don't like or what you will and won't do. I suggest being open to different things and trying new things. The person lacking a drive may find it that way. Good luck.
2006-08-14 07:54:17 · answer #3 · answered by tweetybird3083 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to be open and talk about it and sex is not always complected it can be a hand job of a quick in the kitchen but it will cause trouble if you don't git on the same page and one thinks they are being deprived
2006-08-14 08:10:11 · answer #4 · answered by freeatlastboone 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same problem. if you are the one with this problem try going to a sex store and buy a pocket rocket or something that interest you. try asking him to get you nice and wet before going any futher. when your not wet you can never get into the mood b/c it's like that s all he wants. good luck and try talking to him
2006-08-14 07:55:59 · answer #5 · answered by lover143 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compromise. Meet somewhere in the middle.
2006-08-14 07:54:30 · answer #6 · answered by AsianPersuasion :) 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be kind to one another, let go of pre- conceived expectations and just start kissing instead of all that talk. Try it you'll like it!
2006-08-14 08:04:28 · answer #7 · answered by daytline@verizon.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
With sex you are only as good as your partner
2006-08-14 07:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by Fanuc 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow up and make a compromise.
2006-08-14 07:53:03 · answer #9 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋