It sometimes puts me down but i go to an all boys school. There is a girls school next to us but i never have the nerve or the popularity to ask someone or make a relationship.
Should i wait till i am older?
2006-08-14 07:36:32 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm 14 and I haven't had a boyfriend.
My friend thinks I'm a freak, but I'm just a kid. And I don't care.
Get school over with first - that way nothing will distract you from your work! :)
Plus, in my opinion, people who date in school tend to break up pretty easily, and gossip gets around school anyway.
Save yourself the trouble and wait till your older - that's what I'm doing. ;)
2006-08-14 12:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Strawberry 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i really wouldn't worry about it. a lot of the guys who ended up being the cutest and most popular when i was in high school didn't have girlfriends until they were a little older - 16, or so... take this time to focus and figuring out who you are and making good grades. all the rest will fall into place when the time is right. you don't want to ask a girl out just to have a girlfriend, wait until you meet someone you really love being with, then it will be easier and feel more natural... also, when that time comes, don't psych yourself out - remember, “if you don't ask the answer is always no.” remember too that no one ever regretted taking a relationship too slow - only too fast - if you look on the singles and dating yahoo answers page there are always a lot of questions from high school kids asking about what to do since they're pregnant - trust me, you don't want to be one of them.
good luck!
2006-08-14 07:58:51 · answer #2 · answered by hg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not try activity groups outside of your school, and I don't just mean sports clubs. There's plenty of interests out there waiting for your contribution.
However, remember to make friends before making girl-friends. The one will usually lead to the other, just don't rush anything. Go at a pace you and your friends feel comfortable with. A word of warning here, don't do anything that you are not able (emotionally, physically or spiritually) to cope with ... this includes sex, alcohol and tattoo's ... or all three if you want to become a priest!
Enjoy the life you have ahead of you and be confident that you do have one to enjoy. The best points of any journey is in the travelling, not the destination.
Good luck.
2006-08-14 07:55:57 · answer #3 · answered by Alzebub 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweetie you r 14!! honestly what would you do with your girlfriend if you got one. You are much too young to worry about it, At your age a girlfriend is cost prohibited. much too expensive 4 u. Wait til u go to Uni. There will b girls all over the place.
2006-08-14 08:59:05 · answer #4 · answered by sheaterrasheaterrasheaterra 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dnt waste your childhood loking for a girlfriend hun just enjoy your youth you only get to be young once that will be time for g/f's later on in your life & when you find the right 1 you will know she's the 1 for you & she will feel the same
thats what i tell my 12 yr old son go & enjoy life be silly have fun think about girls later on in life when your say 18-20
2006-08-14 09:37:01 · answer #5 · answered by just ask jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a youth leader for many years I can tell more times than not 14 is too early to be dating. You have your whole life ahead of you and God already has some one picked for you so be patient and you will be alright
2006-08-14 07:44:40 · answer #6 · answered by FBC Youth Leader 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it might not seem like it now - but you have all the time in the world to get a girlfriend
you'd be better off concentrating on your hobbies - finding out what interests you and spending time doing these things will ultimately make you a more interesting person and the girls will love you for it
2006-08-14 08:13:23 · answer #7 · answered by melg302006 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bra i'm 14 turning 15 in Oct, I dont even have a boyfriend. Here let me tell you something God is bringing your's very soon just be pashent because it could be tomarrow or next week you dont know and just pray about it God will send you a girl that fine,sexy,beautiful,how ever you want her to be just ask him for the girl you want and he will send her to you in time ,just in time! Dont give up,You will have your chance!
See yah latyah Bra
2006-08-14 08:05:21 · answer #8 · answered by ViVi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should wait it will come naturally you shouldn't have a girlfriend just because EVERYONE has one which they don't because then there would be nobody left to date ha anyways i wish i would of waited until i was 16 i was just to eager to be popular o well just wait for the right girl to come along
2006-08-14 07:44:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't wait till ur older \, just don't ask out the mose opular girl in school!
2006-08-14 07:42:25 · answer #10 · answered by Luna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋