why can't i get over him??

Question

I loved this boy for more than a year now. Off and on we had feelings for eachother. But now i realize no matter what happens he's always on my mind. I think he's moved on but the person that he's falling for is playing him for a fool, but he's soo in love with her he doesn't ever notice it. I still love him he was the first i ever said i love you to, cried over, fought over, and waited this long for. I want to tell him about that girl, but i don't wanna be the one that he say of your jus' trying to break me away from her. what should i do???should i wait around for him, or jus' let everything fall into it's place???

Answer 1

MOVE ON he already moved on so u should do the same and if he's getting played like a fool then let him he'll open his eyes one day. but as 4 u move on.

Answer 2

u need to find someone u love...that loves u back. that will not make u feel, LIKE THIS: how u are feeling right now. if he was the right guy for you, he would do anything he can to NOT make u feel this way. the problems, the fighting, that's normal. what's NOT normal in a healthy relationship, is to feel as you are right now. unsatisfied. lonely. depressed. sad. unappreciated.

you love him...and that's great. u are committed, caring, wonderful, sweet girl. but he doesn't know how to take care of you. he doesn't see what he has in front of him. so let him go, and find someone who WILL appreciate you, love you, and respect you enough to work things out with you. i'm not saying this guy doesn't care about you, but i'm saying that he doesn't have what it takes to do what is right, for YOU. and that's not the right guy for you, no matter how much u love him. u cannot force anyone to do what u want. u can only control yourself, and how u live ur life. so instead of pining over a guy that treats you badly, work on urself, on ur confidence, on ur life, on ur happiness...and u will see that u deserve someone who knows how to make your life Better. Happier, Positive. that u can grow and learn together, and will never make u feel unworthy. good luck, and don't give up. it's worth it to keep looking for someone who makes you feel Good about yourself, and someone u can count on, and someone u can trust. because they can trust you, and count on you.