I am 31 and have had really bad luck finding a decent guy. I seem to only attract losers and dead beats. I have 4 great kids and I'm newly single (and hating it). I just got out of a bad relationship with a liar(see my last question). Are there really any good guys out there that would want an instant family, or am I just doomed to a lonely life?
2006-08-14 07:34:12 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My brother moved in with a 26 year old with 3 kids and a violent ex.
2006-08-14 07:41:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm Here To Tell You...YES!!
I Am A Mother Of 4 Beautiful Children. Unfortunately None Of My Relationships With Their Fathers Worked Out. So I Found Myself As A Single Parent For A Long Time.
I Was Feeling Like You..I Would Never Find Someone Who Would Accept Me And My Children.
But Along Came This Man..A Wonderful, Sweet, Strong Man. He Accepted All my Children and Me. He Is Father To My Youngest Who's Father Does Not See Him Much. He Loves My Other 3 Like They Were His Own!!
We Are Soon To Be Married.
Do not Give Up Hope..There Is A Man Out There For You. The Good Ones Are Just Harder To Wean Out From The Rotten Bunch.
A Good Man Will Accept You And Your Children And Build On The Love That You Have Already Established In Your Family.
2006-08-14 09:40:16 · answer #2 · answered by XXSEXY66XX 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't doomed for a lonely life but children do make it just that much harder. I have a ready made family; my fiance has two sets of children by two ex-wives, three children stay with us and both mothers are as low of losers as they come. I sometimes hate having a ready made family because their is always a back lash of the individual personalities and how realistically there is no relation there. However, I love my fiance and he and I have a child together all I can say is have faith and hope that the children behave enough and your finances are so independent that you can pay all of you and your children's own when you do find a man that it won't stuff a wedge between the both of you!
2006-08-14 07:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i become you, i ought to attend till she is in college first. i become 31 after I met my present day lady friend who become in hardship-free words 19 on the time. We the position associates first and did not start up thus far till rather a lot a twelve months later. we were jointly now for 4 years. Her mothers and fathers and has no longer had any problems with both my age or the actual incontrovertible reality that i become married previously. i ought to a minimum of wait till she is graduated from intense college previously doing some thing than having a verbal change with the dad once you talked jointly with her to be particular that she needs thus far an older guy. it is between the biggest hangups with my lady friend is our age massive difference.
2016-12-06 12:59:49 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm 33 w 2 kids and i found someone. been w him for 3 years now. there is hope but in the meantime, work on yourself and enjoy your kids. why would you want to rush and find someone now? i don't believe you're doomed to a lonely life. but if you are put together, your children are nurtured and loved, you may be more of a prospect for some good guy out there!
2006-08-14 07:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I'm all for having an "instant family". My ex kidnapped my 2 children and lef the country with them. I miss having a family and would love to be a husband for a single mother. I would love her kids like they were my own. After all, if I love the woman, I would love everything that is a part of her.
2006-08-16 17:29:48 · answer #6 · answered by curtf1964 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this attractive woman who is divorce with 5 children....she is having a hard time finding a guy who wants to be in a relationship with her. To be honest.....5 kids is a big stumbling block for most men. There are other alternatives.....have you considered friends with benefits?
2006-08-14 07:54:58 · answer #7 · answered by Tony 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a tall order. I would advise kicking back awhile and focusing on family and friends. Best of luck to you.
2006-08-14 08:26:09 · answer #8 · answered by Johnny 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont worry.. you will find someone. I have dated women with 4 kids before. the only thing that stopped us was the fact that our kids didnt get along. So just be happy with yourself for now and it will come.
2006-08-14 07:57:07 · answer #9 · answered by bill c 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need a tv wow 4 huh? well it's all on how the guy looks at it. i am sure as long as he and the kids get along that would be a plus for you,a nd if he loves you enough it wont matter,ya dig?
2006-08-14 07:40:47 · answer #10 · answered by Stoner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋