women do women always tell me I'm a really nice guy then dump me after a few months?

Answer 1

The truth is mate....... if you're seen as simply " a nice guy" then you may fullfill her social value need for a reliable, Beta-type provider male who is acceptable to her peer group but honestly.......the kind of man women have a gut level, super strong, hot and horny longlasting attraction to is men who exhibit "bad boy" characteristics.

Of course never be abusive or violent but show her that you can take her or leave her. That she has little or no control over you (expecially her sexuality) and that she always has to work to get you.

By displaying Alpha qualities you are communicating directly with her deeper processes for sexual selection for the kind of guy who has strong and ruthless genes who will produce strong and successful offspring.

It's all in the genes. Have some fun with the girls, tease them, ignore them if you have to, but don't forget that part of the fun of being a "bad boy" is that you can occasionally be really nice (when she least expects it)........and it will melt her heart and she will have the best sex of her life.

Good luck,

Viking xxx

Answer 2

What do you think it is. We don't know you. Think about the things you may have problems with? Communication? charisma? physique? Are you a "YES" man? Women are a complex bunch.There are so many schools of thought. Some women like good looking guys with nothing to say,some like a brainy boy who can keep there mind wondering.

Answer 3

Ah if you're constantly being nice like buying flowers, calling her, buying her dinner and generally being a bit of a wuss - it's not too attractive. You see loads of questions on Yahoo! with regards to this - "why do women like bad boys?" - and every time, "cos they're exciting" etc.

Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss. It will really open your eyes. You can download on torrent sites.

Good Luck!

Answer 4

I think maybe you are too nice. From my experience they start of nice and then are hard to get but personally as a women i quite like this, sounds stupid i know but most of us are the same! Have you heard of the saying 'treat them mean keep them keen'!

Answer 5

It's because you are a 'really nice guy', which is the kiss of death. Try to have a bit more backbone, you know. You don't have to be a b'stard but be a little more exciting and unpredictable. We women cannot stand be bored.

Answer 6

Nice guys finish last. Act like a roughneck and you'll get a much better response from women.

Answer 7

because your too nice. my boyfriend is a nice guy but he isnt a doormat. my ex lee who i went out with when i was 18 did anything i asked. he was like a slave in the end not like a boyfriend and he became really unactractive becoz i could get away with anything.

my current boyfriend asks me what i want to do where i want to go and then considers it sometimes he will do it but other times he will tell me why he doesnt want to do it or go there and we discuss things.

lee (my ex) never did this he just went along with anything i said and it made me feel bad for bossing him about and it made me think he was sad and pathetic for not saying what he thought incase it upset me.

Answer 8

Because women are stupid and like bad guys not nice guys, I know Im one of them.

Answer 9

women can be assh... sometimes if your a nice guy good for you we need more of you in this world, next time dont be so nice some girls like bad boys its stupid, i know!!!

Answer 10

Perhaps you need to develop a more interesting personality. Develop your conversational skills, your general knowledge and maybe your sense of humour.