Should it be ok to sleep a guy friend house if you now him for 2 years he has been very respectful but a flirt as well. That's the reason it has me confuse should I sleep over.
2006-08-14 07:26:53 · 39 answers · asked by sweetred 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
BAD IDEA! NOT PROPER!
2006-08-14 07:30:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Good lord, what century are we in again?? If you're just friends and he doesn't seem to be making untoward advances then for heaven's sake, hang out with the guy. I had lots of guy friends when I was younger. We'd kid around but we all knew that there were boundaries and that was always respected. I would say make sure that alcohol and/or drugs didn't come into play. That's dangerous territory no matter who you're with. But if you're just going to go over and watch movies or play video games all night then what's the big deal?
2006-08-14 07:34:34 · answer #2 · answered by Irish Red 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If his parents are at home, ok. Otherwise you may end up doing something that might harm your friendship. Young people always think they can be intimate and still be friends, but that is not so.
Intimacy changes a relationship forever. If/when something causes a split, you won't be able to remain friends - unless you are the one in a billion who is able to walk that very, very fine line.
2006-08-14 07:36:42 · answer #3 · answered by kerangoumar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first question to ask yourself is if u trust the guy ? if yes then i think that u can take a chance if no then its clearly out. secondly don't get it twisted he might show u respect if he thinks there is something to gain from it but knowing him for two years should make u know whether he is sincere or not.thirdly all guys are flirts.
2006-08-14 07:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by trixy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both adults, and know what is expected or desired, then go for it. If you both want sex, that's fine...if it's meant to be actual sleeping then pack your pjs...
It sounds like he's invited you to sleep over...why? Are you going to be visiting and it's too far to drive home late? Perhaps you should ask him, why you have been invited to stay...if you have any reservations, make sure you have your own room, sleep clothed, and if there is ANY hint of impropriety that causes you to be uncomfortable, then leave.
2006-08-14 07:32:20 · answer #5 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is okay. I have done it and we are still just friends. However, I was an adult when I sleep at my male friend house.
2006-08-14 07:37:08 · answer #6 · answered by Unique 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes; I hope you take protection once you get there. I not sure if you two might have sex. Just be safe. If you want I'll have a sleepover with you. I live in Ashford, AL
2006-08-14 07:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
only you know how comfortable you are with sleeping over this dude's house...i grow up with most of my guy friends...i'm talking bout my mom would baby-sit them, their mom's would babysit them...but i only had 2 friends i could trust, and we use to hang out all the time, it'd get late and we'd sleepover each others houses...they never tried me on any other level other than friend/sis...
2006-08-14 07:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_latina830 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well .... Though u havent mentioned the reason y u want to.... its generally OK ..... but only if u for sure know what u want or dont want and r ready to stick to it come wht may !!
2006-08-14 07:33:29 · answer #9 · answered by Fatal_Matrix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He wants to sleep with you. Don't laugh it off. If you want to sleep with him, then sleep over, if you want to make this crush he has on you worse then sleep over.
Otherwise sleep at a girls house.
2006-08-14 07:31:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
Sleeping over doesn't make sense.
Sleep in your own house.
If he wants to watch tv together or go to the movies, fine but spending the night only is another language for getting your groove on.
Why put yourself in that position if you are not ready for it?
2006-08-14 07:32:06 · answer #11 · answered by Katherine 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋