Is it neccessary? A lot of my friends bost about it! Should i worry now or should i wait till i am more mature and older..
2006-08-14 07:22:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
theres plenty of time for all that gf stuff, just wait until your ready
2006-08-14 07:26:35 · answer #1 · answered by jojo78 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No Dude.... Wait and find one that is best for you and u can spend the rest of your life with her. Why bothering for a sex partener at the age of 14 when u have a whole bright future waiting for you and needs more attention than finding a girl. I am calling it sex partner b/c at this young age, the neither the girl or you will understand anything about future life... only thing you could share is some moments and sex. And once you have sex with a virgin and then dump her.. u will turn her in to a carzy **** (Not prostitute) and then you will find there are so many guys doing this to girls and turning them to crazy sluts... and then at the age of 28-35 they all settle down and if you look into the past you will find you married a girl who fucked all of your classmates.
This wouldn't feel too good for you.
Also, the fact is nobody cares.... everyone is doing it.. girls don't care... and then in future they might don't even know they got AIDs or other STDs until you marry them. I am saying this b/c one of my friend had this situation. Its a real life experience. So, hey there is risk in anything you...... so its upto you what you want to do and what not.....
2006-08-14 07:36:41 · answer #2 · answered by Galactic_Explorer 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to bobby t, he sounds like he's a loser.
You don't HAVE to have anything. If you fancy someone, ask them out, if not, don't worry about it, you'll find someone.
It's no biggy not to have a girlfriend at that age. The best time to have a girlfriend is 16 up i would say, the relationships i had before then were pretty pointless and didn't mean much.
2006-08-14 07:31:02 · answer #3 · answered by interestiblez 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You get a girlfriend when you're good and ready. Your mates are probably making it up anyway, and if they're not, so what? Any future girlfriends won't be impressed by the amount of exs you have only by how you treat them. And I would think that going by your sensible question, they would be quite impressed.
2006-08-14 07:31:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
The exact same thing happened to me when I was 14, all my friends had bf's and I was the "odd one out". I waited another 3 or so years and to tell you the truth, I dont regret it. Enjoy your singleness man! You dont need a girl to make you feel part of the crowd, you make your own crowd, you are your crowd!
2006-08-14 07:30:13 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't have to have a girlfriend when you meet the right person then great but dint let your friends get to you about it they will be jealous when you have a gf
hope this helps.
2006-08-14 08:15:16 · answer #6 · answered by Sarah 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont wory at all wait until u are ready. Your mates are probably lying anyway.
2006-08-14 07:30:23 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you dont HAVE to have one...if you want one go ahead but its not neccessary!..hope i helped
<3 lauren
2006-08-17 18:46:50 · answer #8 · answered by Lauren 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are only 14 , trust me you have lots off time ( beside dont believe all that your friends say )
2006-08-14 07:30:48 · answer #9 · answered by ssgambit 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have one when your ready.. not when others pressure you.... its pathetic to think kids are under so much pressure to get "jiggy with it".... stand up to the pressure and be proud you aint sleepin around!
2006-08-14 07:47:54 · answer #10 · answered by tikketiboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋