We all know that guys have their macho pride when it comes to sheading a few tears. So, through the anonymous power of the internet, I ask this question for the guys...
Guys - Do you keep it all inside? Have you ever cried in front of your buddies? Or do you only cry around your girlfriend/wife?
2006-08-14 07:21:59 · 26 answers · asked by Mintygoodness1 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
when i left to another school in different country i did... miss my gf and my brothers :(
2006-08-21 12:37:24 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course we all cry from time to time. Have I ever cried in front of my buddies? Yes, my Mom's funeral, for example.
However, for the most part I keep it all inside. This is not some macho thing, it's just how I am. I am more of an introvert personality that comes to terms with things by thinking about them rather than crying about them.
2006-08-14 07:37:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are only certain reasons anyone should cry.
I think it's a sign of weakness to cry about stupid stuff-- like if there is a problem that can be solved, there's no point in crying, you have to find the solution to your problem and not just sit there crying and feeling sorry for yourself and trying to get others to feel sorry for you.
BUT- if there's something that you cannot do, such as, help your family if they are sick or if someone dies. Or it's a situation completely out of your control... sometimes the only thing you can do is cry.
EXCEPT FOR--- Work- I hate it when women cry at work-- I think it makes all women look weak and disrespected..
I hate it when men cry to purposely "show" they are sensitive. It's crap. This really aggravates me when men try to get me to feel sorry for them for some unknown reason.
2006-08-14 07:46:34 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not good to keep it all inside. I have cried in front of my mom and dad but I usually like to cry with my two cats. They understand.
If I had a girlfriend or wife, I would not be afraid to cry in front of them as long as it's not due to some movie. I tend to get carried away.
Have a great day!!!
2006-08-14 07:28:44 · answer #4 · answered by Coo coo achoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
certain. purely were given finished, extremely. My astounding pal because the age of four (i'm 20 now) died in September in a automobile crash. this may be the first Christmas in 16 years that we've not been jointly. i appreciate and omit her soooo a lot. Been crying about all of it afternoon till about 10 minutes in the past.
2016-12-06 12:59:20 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes! and iam 18
I only cried infront of my mom when i lost a test TWICE and once infront of my brother when we broke out on a Fight!!
i have many sad things at life, being cheated all the way in jr.high by some jerk who pretented to be my friend... and now i feel sad thinking about having lost my sister and brother at life (they aint dead, just selfish little............ )
i really wish i could cry out loud.... but something inside me prevents my to let out a sob, you dont know what it feels like... atleast some guys do...... something trying to pull back your heart even when you are at breaking point.... it feels so terrble....
and i cried once watching the movie "The Game" (the only one i remember of), because there was a brother jumping of the top a skyscraper in front of his younger bro.... it really touched me...
Visit this Question of mine....... *hurt*
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2006-08-14 07:29:31 · answer #6 · answered by The AnswerMan ? (J.L.A) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have cried in front of male friends, but only once or twice. (My brother's death comes to mind.) My wife cannot handle it so I don't do it in front of her either. (I have cried three times in a 20-year marriage. Twice she got up and left the room. The other time, we were in a car and she didn't have anywhere to go.)
2006-08-14 07:27:17 · answer #7 · answered by Otis F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everybody cries. the best way for a guy to cry is to let a tear roll down one cheek with out making a sad face or sobbing noises. the other one still has to be clear, so you'll know who saw you crying.
2006-08-14 07:29:18 · answer #8 · answered by Han_dang 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cried at the end of The Fox And The Hound. Does that count?
2006-08-14 07:27:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes we do have a tendency to bottle it up because we are supposed to be the Strong ones but yes i have cried both in front of my buddies and my wife
2006-08-14 07:30:52 · answer #10 · answered by lonly_male4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but i have alot of guy friends. the close ones cry in front of me sometimes. So i think they do, they're just embarrassed to let others see them do it because of the "real men don't cry" cliche
2006-08-14 07:27:29 · answer #11 · answered by Sarah 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋