so i posted one abut my ex cheating on me. i cant get over it!! i cry and cry, all i do is reply it in my head. i have sooo many un answerd questions. i just whish i could talk to him and get the story straight- im not looking for an apoligie. i just want to know what he was thinking, what he felt while he was doing all these things and lieing. i havnt slept or ate in days. how do i get over it and stop thinking about it. its driving me crazy. do u think he'll call me ?! do u guys think he thinks about me ?! does he feel like **** ?!
see what i mean .. and i dont have the answers to any of the questions. his mom is pycho and said if i ever call him agai she'll file harrassment ?!
what to do. i cant keep going on like this.
2006-08-14 07:02:51 · 14 answers · asked by marissa 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Forget the loser. I know you are hurting terribly but he ruined the trust you had and a relationship is based on trust. Kick up those feet put on a new pair of shoes and find someone who will respect you and treat you the right way. NEVER tolerate any man that is distrustful. Time does heal wounds, no sense in asking why you already know..he lied, cheated and can not be trusted again. Make him so jealous that you are moving on and will not even take a step back to be with him again. That will hurt him more. Sweetie smile and live life to the fullest it lasts once do not dwell on something that is not worth it. Have fun enjoy your life.
2006-08-15 03:31:47 · answer #1 · answered by italliansweety67 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't go on like this!!! If you don't dump him now, those things sworming in your head will never completely go away. If you stay with him, he will think it's ok to do it again because "you love him sooo much" and will always take him back no matter what!! If you let him know that it really drives you crazy, yet, you will forgive him if you could just understand, your just telling him it's ok!! You will never know the complete reason or get the full story, cause he is a guy that has cheated and is probably an excellent liar. This will just be the start to a huge chain reaction of lies!! You have to move on. Life is too short to let a man have the upper hand. He shouldn't! He did YOU wrong, not the other way around!
2006-08-14 07:14:45 · answer #2 · answered by ginger sue 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well i will tell you this, these are answers you really don't want to hear you just think you do, the reasons for cheating are usually the dumbest, lowest most pitiful excuses, that when you do here them it will only make matters worse. As well, you shouldn't be so strung out over it, he was no good for you, and his mom might not be any help. Wi l he call, i doubt it, hate to say but it looks bleak, does he think about you, i am sorry child, but that is an uncertainty as well. With anything it will take time to heal your wounds. I really don't know bout the thinking about you either, more than likey maybe but still not sure. in the meantime, i think you should try to eat and take Tylenol PM to get some rest.
2006-08-14 07:14:39 · answer #3 · answered by Paktown 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The guy isn't worth the tissue paper you are blowing your nose into. I know its easier said then done....But forget about him. He will never have a good answer for your questions. Nothing he say will ever put your mind at rest, or give you any closure on the issue. So just move on, and remember it is his loss. Hopefully the girl he cheated on you with was worth it.... chances are she is dirt. Your better than both of them. Keep your head up high, and find the guy that will treat you with the respect and decency you deserve.
Your golden
2006-08-14 07:12:32 · answer #4 · answered by President25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....If the guy cheated on you, he obviously doesn't respect you. For him to not justify his actions makes the situation even worse. I know it's going to be hard to be without him (you may think), but think rationally about YOU! You deserve the best, and there's plenty of GOOD/NON-cheating fish in the sea :-)......Now, if you start feeling all crappy, you may want to jump right into another relationship to feel better, but realize this is not going to solve anything for you. Some good quality time to get over him, have fun, and recollect is definitely what you need. His loss...........take care.
2006-08-14 07:16:17 · answer #5 · answered by VeronicaM 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
forget the guy. he did you wrong. leave him alone and move on. you deserve much better. and if his mom is involved, definitely get outta there. i'm sure he knows he did wrong - let him suffer the consequences. try to be strong. a guy like that isn't worth crying over.
2006-08-14 07:08:25 · answer #6 · answered by SheShe13 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Okay look. First break up with him. Sooner or later he'll come around and realize what a great girlie he missed. He shouldn't treat you like that and if he keeps doing it oh well, it was his loss.
As for his mom, **** her. Especially if she's as paranoid as she seems.
2006-08-14 07:09:38 · answer #7 · answered by falloutboyfreak 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
stop trying to answer those unanswered questions, try to focus on you and what you want to do, keep busy with school work friends etc, the point is he did it for whatever his reason and even if you knew what his reasons were, it still wouldnt change anything, i know it hurts now, but trust me it will go away
2006-08-14 07:08:47 · answer #8 · answered by SHE HATE ME 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow you have a problem. You need to get yourself into other activites and to move on. This guy wasn't good enough for you.
2006-08-14 07:08:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just go talk to him about it. Ask him questions. I know how you felt. Good luck!
2006-08-14 07:08:36 · answer #10 · answered by xoxo§kailey§ 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋