I have a problem. She was my best friend. Till she got a BF. This was 2 months ago. I did not like this guy and i told her that.. So she send me on her way. I was the the bad one i every thing. She mad my life hell. At the end i was sitting at home on weekends. But that did not stop me i just went out, but not the same town. She had wrote me off and i did the same with her. Now the BF is there no more. She want to be my friend. I made new friends. Must i fortget and forgive.? i do not know. I want to send her to hell. But i still love her as a friend. Please give me one reason only one, why the F"ck i must be her friend. I feel sad to hear and see her sit at home. She where laughing when i was siting at home. Please help
2006-08-14 07:00:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't HAVE to be her friend - only if you want to.
You have 2 choices -
- to be kind and forgive her for treating you badly, and be her friend again.
- to treat her the same way she treated you (ignore her and refuse to be her friend)
It depends on what kind of person you want to be. I think if you do the second, you'd be small-minded and unforgiving.
The first option would make you a much more attractive person. You have the potential to be good to this person - if I were you, I'd go for it.
2006-08-14 07:07:19 · answer #1 · answered by Cina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate it when people get some one new in their lives and forget all about the friends that have been there for them. If she doesn't appreciate having you in her life then I say good riddance. It's mainly up to you to decide if she hurt you bad enough to be done with her. What happens the next time she meets a guy? Don't be anyone's doormat.
2006-08-14 07:08:17 · answer #2 · answered by lovelee1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she made your life hell, i wouldn't befriend her again. it's a shame that you lost a friend, but you really have to evaluate how valuable her friendship was to you. i've had friends that i've "broken up" with and i'm glad i did. i'm just afraid that she may get another BF and treat you bad again.
i guess if you feel badly about her being sad, you can be friends with her again. obviously you're a good person. but just be wary that it may happen again.
2006-08-14 07:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by SheShe13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She knows how she has treated you but you should be big about it and continue being her friend but do not make her special she has now to fit in with your life style and fit around your new life and new friends
2006-08-14 07:09:57 · answer #4 · answered by stephen c 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
o0o now when she dont got a BF no more, she wants to be your friend..dam thats messed up..i dont think you should forgive her..but you two are best friends, its up to u if u want to lose ur friendship with her
2006-08-14 07:08:40 · answer #5 · answered by LilAngel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋