I don't mean to generalize or anything, but it seems like all of the good guys are taken or just don't care. So many men that I've come across are players and don't care about having a relationship. I know not all of you are that way, but sometimes it's hard to think otherwise. There have been so many times when I have been blinded and thought that something would work between me and someone else, then my hopes just fall apart. I'm not too sure why i'm even posting this on here. I was just wondering if there are any guys out there that truly know how to treat a lady and care about their feelings?
2006-08-14 06:49:18 · 14 answers · asked by uhhsure8701 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The reason you have come across so many players and so few good guys is that the players are the ones who will approach you, while the good guys will sit back shyly (for the most part). For example, if you are hanging out with other girls who are your friends, a player will walk up to the group, say something funny and walk away with the numbers of half the girls in the group. If he's really good, he'll get everybody's number. A nice guy will just look at you and smile sweetly, possibly saying "hi" but not doing anything to interfere with your conversation with your friends. You have to seek out the good guys. Just like guys have to seek out the good girls.
2006-08-14 06:57:08 · answer #1 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep looking you'll find the nice guy for you, that also a process of growing up and mature. otherwise you will not understand and see the clear pic of what life and relationship is all about, dont just sit there and hope for the right one will come to you. not being mean so dont mad at me, treating the lady right or not also depent on your part not all on the guys side, you can email me and we'll chat about it. have a good one and good luck
2006-08-14 14:04:27 · answer #2 · answered by kevin n 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i had the same question several times in my life. believe me, you will find someone who treats you right.
some of the things you need to know:
if your friends and family don't like him, there's a good reason why.
he knows his priorities, and you're on top
he is responsible and trustworthy and you never have to second guess yourself
girls always go for the "bad boys." this is a big mistake. i've done it myself. go for the nice guys. they're definitely worth it.
2006-08-14 13:57:08 · answer #3 · answered by SheShe13 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you believe all the good guys are taken.....guess what happens?
Reality equels the total sum of our beliefs.Change your beliefs
and like magic,your whole world will change.Hang in there,life's
hard and no one gets out alive,so make the best of it!
2006-08-14 14:02:27 · answer #4 · answered by Mark K 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i sure you have some guys like that but you didn't see it, i was like that but not anymore you get run over enough you wont be nice well only to get stuff ya know. i know it sounds harsh but the truth hurts and fairy tales are written like a book
2006-08-14 13:56:16 · answer #5 · answered by Stoner 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm, I was just going to ask you the same question! I'm a nice guy, cant seem to find a nice girl....
2006-08-14 13:55:18 · answer #6 · answered by wittster 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first case is discrimination.If you a blonde, you're waiting for that blonde guy to step up. Even if a latino or black guy loves you to death, you'd not be interested. Just listen to your heart.
2006-08-14 13:55:16 · answer #7 · answered by kolugy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are everywhere! The problem is, its like finding a gold ring in a pile of cow dung.
2006-08-14 13:55:06 · answer #8 · answered by Phoenix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are lots of good guys left. We just sometimes don't live close by.
2006-08-14 13:53:33 · answer #9 · answered by ABN 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the loving caring compassionate guys already have boyfriends!!
2006-08-14 13:57:03 · answer #10 · answered by sportyscott_28 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋