There is a guy who has been crushing on me for a while. So, I invited him to my birthday party (he even RSVP'd and said he would be there). He never showed up and never even called.
I am really hurt by this. This is the 2nd time he has stood me up.
I no longer plan to pursue him, ask him to do anything or even return his calls or emails because standing someone up is completely unacceptable.
So, when I see him...how should I act around him???? Should I pretend nothing happened or yell at him?
2006-08-14 06:33:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girl just act calm, ignore his ***, pretend nothin happen, but if he comes to ask you about then yell at his ***.
2006-08-14 08:51:35 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry he did this to you on your birhtday. I *cringe* to say this but look at it as the best gift he could possibly give you. Imagine what it would have been like if you had become more emotionally invested with the creep. My advice: act with the same admirable self respect you are showing by turning away from any possibility of a relationship with this person.. Just keep your answers short and cool and always have someplace you've got to be rather immediately. Even though he blew you off, he will be the one feeling burned in the end if he doesn't even think he will get any drama from you. Some people feed on drama that rises when they hurt other people. Sickos.
2006-08-17 21:23:24 · answer #2 · answered by jennifae 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him...
If he says hi...just keep walking like you didn't hear anything...its basically what he did to you..and eye for an eye.
2006-08-14 13:38:30 · answer #3 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh it's not his fault. His fears just got the best of him. Thats all.
2006-08-14 13:39:09 · answer #4 · answered by MEST_FAN 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Act like it doesn't even bother you. K**L him with kindness.
2006-08-14 13:40:28 · answer #5 · answered by lovebnjenn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋