well yesterday i got this new boyfriend i was about to go home so i told him goodbye he gave me a hug and went to give me a kiss i pushed him off i told him i dont know him that well he told i will get to know him and then he told me to meet him in the back of the school well the whole thing is that when i see him today should i give him wat he wants i really like him i dont want to loose him
2006-08-14 06:28:40 · 27 answers · asked by ridgelladmin04@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
good girl get to know him first if he really likes you he'll wait
2006-08-14 06:32:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not kiss him and tell him that you need more time before being gf and bf. For now on, you should wait until you've known a guy for at least 2 full weeks before you become gf/bf and then you'll know him a little more so that you will want to kiss him. But only kiss boys until you are about 20. Don't let boys push you into doing anything you don't want to do.
2006-08-14 13:34:03 · answer #2 · answered by Precious 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dump the loser. I know you think you like him, but you have only known him for 2 DAYS! You barely een know who he is. Don't kiss him now, or ever! If he puts on that much pressure now, then next week he will want to feel you up and the week after that it will be sex or he leaves, then what.
'It is good you stood up for yoursel, now show even more and dump this loser. Then make sure you warn all the other girls in school and in topwn and in the state that he is only after sex! Let's make sure no one goes near him ever again. Maybe then he (and all theother guys around) will learn to treat girls with respect. Nothing like several years of celibacy to straighten him out.
2006-08-14 14:18:20 · answer #3 · answered by llywarch_dindaethwy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't your boyfriend until you start having sex or both of you plan to marry each other. Don't be silly.
You are a kid, aren't you? Then you are just goofin around. At twelve you may start kissing and touching each other from the first day. At sixteen it's okay to have sex. It depends on your local culture. If you live in Utah you have to be older. In California you might be younger. You know better than I do.
I had my first kiss at four and started having sex at thirteen, but it isn't advisable for anyone. Also, that is fine here in Uruguay but not in Spain.
The rule of gold in life is: if you are scared, don't do it.
2006-08-14 13:39:11 · answer #4 · answered by Carlos Sosa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How come is your b/f after 2 days of meeting him?
First at all, do u really have feelings for him? or u just want someone to spend time or to have a certain "status" cause u have a b/f????
Maybe u dont need a b/f.
2006-08-14 13:38:15 · answer #5 · answered by Finy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're afraid to lose him because you didn't do what he wanted? Geez girl, it's just a kiss and you're right in saying no. If you are not comfortable with kissing him yet, he needs to respect that. If he can't, then maybe he is not the right one for you.
2006-08-14 13:35:06 · answer #6 · answered by Melissa S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
slow down. and if you've only known him for two days then he's more of a friend that you are really interested in than your "boyfriend". you're young, enjoy your youth and don't let any guy pressure you to do anything you are not comfortable with. If he really respects you and genuinely cares for you he will respect your decision.
2006-08-14 13:39:02 · answer #7 · answered by donise225 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's upset that you didn't give him a kiss, he's really not worth dating.
If you think he's worth dating, just talk to him about it. Tell him that you're not really comfortable with kissing just yet.
If he really likes you, he'll wait. Don't let the fear of losing him get to you. And if he breaks up with you because of that, you have nothing to be sad about because he's NOT WORTH IT.
2006-08-14 13:33:57 · answer #8 · answered by :D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you like giving up your self-respect,
and no guy... no matter how 'hot' is worth that.
For every guy that expects you to kiss them w/o you even knowing them...there will be at least 2 who will be willing to wait, because they think you're "worth the wait".
2006-08-14 13:34:23 · answer #9 · answered by DG 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he wants more than you are needing to give him. If he gets pushy then he is not for you. Someone better will come along that will move at your pace and respect your wishes. wait until then don't risk getting in an abusive relationship
2006-08-14 13:34:26 · answer #10 · answered by ms01 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he repects you he will not kiss you that soon if you are not ready the most inmportant thing is for him to respect you and your wishes if he doesn't he is not worth your time.
2006-08-14 13:32:48 · answer #11 · answered by tiffer_flower_2003 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋