Theres this one guy that i really like, and he asked me out.. but i turned him down, but since then weve been talkin alot and stuff, and he keeps sweet talking me and hittin on me and stuff.. but then the other day, he asked out my cuzin.. i no he should be able to ask out anyone he wants, but im kinda hurt cuz the same exact day he was telling me stuff about how pretty i was, and he even asked me out again!!! i feel betrayed and hurt... my cuzin turned him down cuz i liked him, but then he told her that i wouldnt go out with him, the whole thing is well this is my moms account, and she wont let me date till im 16.. so i hadda turn him down... should i feel this way, or should i not be hurt at all, and just wait for another guy to come around? I fell for him, and at first he caught me, then threw me on the ground... what should i do?
2006-08-14 06:28:35 · 7 answers · asked by beautyqueen 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have you explained to him why you can't go out with him? If you have and he still kept trying to go out with you...and your cousin, I would just keep waiting. If you haven't told him, you need to. Then he needs to respect it.
2006-08-14 06:36:00 · answer #1 · answered by angry_elfboy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you explain to him why you are turning him down? Because if you had, he probably would have been content with staying friends with you and spending time together as if you were a couple. There just wouldn't be any of the dating stuff like kissing and making out.
Tell him why you rejected him if you haven't already and tell him that you really like him.
2006-08-14 13:37:13 · answer #2 · answered by Magina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't be encouraging guys who like you if you can't go out with them, but then he's still a dog for hitting on you and your cuz at the same time. Just ditch him and find new friends, but don't flirt too hard with them if you can't go out with them. Respect your mom's wishes.
2006-08-14 13:37:15 · answer #3 · answered by LoneWolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him why u turned him down and than u guys can still hang out..it can be a friend with benefits sort of thing
2006-08-14 13:35:53 · answer #4 · answered by xkissablex2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just let it go....obviously he doenst like you that much if he just turned around and asked out your cousin...he just wants a gf. and your not allowed to date right now anyways...just wait till your old enough and you find the right one
2006-08-14 13:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by pirate_holla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I were you..I would just forget about it..
he is just trying to get under your skin by dating your cousin, I would tell her to forget about him to..that is just kind of low. You are very young..and don't need that kind of crap...forget about him and focus on something else.
2006-08-14 13:36:27 · answer #6 · answered by Bevin M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him how he asked your cousin out made you feel and tell him how you really like him and ask him maybe you and him can date some other time.
2006-08-14 13:33:56 · answer #7 · answered by mamas_grandmasboy06 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋