I broke up with this guy last year, it was a long distance thing. We kept on talking through msn. One day he told me we should better stop seeing each other because it hurt him. And we cut contact. Soon, I'm going to his town and he learned about it. He called me and asked if I wanted to see him. I wanted to sound cool and said "sure, why not?"
Actually, I'm still angry for I felt bad after he said he didn't want to talk to me anymore, and now he suddenly sounds as if nothing happened.
One part of me wants to meet him just to make him jealous and feel bad that he cut contact with me (no I don't have any feelings for him anymore. It's just that I want to make him feel bad!) I know I sound so mean, but if we meet I want to look super good and cheerful as if it was not an issue for me that he stopped talking to me.
By the way it was me who broke up with him. So, do you think it's a good idea to meet him?
2006-08-14 06:07:17 · 10 answers · asked by Earthling 7 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Definately. I would totally meet up with him and let him see what he could have had. Don't put in on too thick trying to make him jealous cuz that will only make you look like an ***. But be very nice and attentive and dress hot and he'll have regrets.Hopefully he'll try to make a move and you can turn him down.
2006-08-14 06:14:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
You not at all had a situation with him earlier. So what's the situation now? it is not like he's dishonest on you. Or mendacity and denying it (he's unquestionably the single that delivered it up, provide him some credit) He basically has to work out 2 human beings a month. what's the enormous deal? How could you sense in case you married this guy, had young babies, for some reason have been given divorced. the subsequent boyfriend you get breaks up as quickly as you walk up and say "I even have 2 young babies". you be conscious of this would possibly not look honest, so which you think of approximately conserving that certainty faraway from the subsequent individual. Why? because of the fact in the event that they such as you lots with no need young babies, there is no longer something diverse approximately your character once you do have the youngsters. do no longer ask no count number if the youngsters are a situation. Ask no count number in case you will have dealt with staying with him earlier he informed you that. If the respond's definite, then you definitely have not have been given something to stress approximately.
2016-09-29 06:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't meet him if all you want to do is make it a game and try and piss him off. It'll just piss you off too. Empathise the position he was in.... almost anyone would cut of contact with someone they love but are ONLY talking to online b/c of the distance. It really does suck when things are that way and cutting lose, always seems like an easier route. I wouldn't be surprised if you were in his shoes and did the same thing. SO, if you can be an adult about it and meet him and just talk like friends, then meet him. Make him see that you're happy, at the very least. But don't try and make him jealous or nothing. He'll probably miss you anyway, but what will that cause? It'll drive him nuts and make you confused.
2006-08-14 06:14:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you can see him without stirring any old feelings...there's no harm in seeing him...Just remember why you broke up and that should temper that flame...
My ex boyfriend and I were engaged for years...when we broke up it was hard to talk to him...it was a mutual break...but since we're really great friends...we only talk about the good times..and when I THINK..why did we break up..we get along so well... I remember the reasons...and I'm over him again!!!
2006-08-14 06:13:19 · answer #4 · answered by just me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it is a good idea only beacuse you guys havent seen eachother and are you seeing him because you still have feelings for him or just friends..either way its good to see your old friends and old boyfriends after a long period of time!
2006-08-14 06:16:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u go see him don't go alone.. so then it can be a quick visit and then u leave..
u've moved on already.. and ur still sore about it.. if u keep in contact w/him it's only gonna bring up the bad memories and it's gonna make things worse..
remember he's still long distance.. so just say hi and bye and keep it moving
2006-08-14 06:12:09 · answer #6 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its never good to purposely see an ex. It only helps to rehash old feelings. Let sleeping dogs lie and go on with your life.
2006-08-14 06:11:25 · answer #7 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go looking for him, if you see him you see him you looking for him or agreeing to meet him makes you look hella desprate! just let it fall into place.
2006-08-14 06:13:35 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont see him. Its not worth it.
2006-08-14 06:11:05 · answer #9 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sure if you like too.
2006-08-14 06:12:35 · answer #10 · answered by party_2_hearty 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋