My girlfriend went to visit her family and I ended up going out with a really cool girl with infinitely long legs. Well to make a long story short, she spent last weekend at my place and she even used some of my girlfriend's clothes. I love my girlfriend, but I do not want to leg go of of this wild Amazon. For the firts time in my life I feel that it is possible to love someone and think of her as the ideaal mother of your future children and at the same time spend some time wome that are totally crazy and live life as if there is no tomorrow. Any advice as to how best protect myself from the inherent risks of the gamble I am about to take?
2006-08-14 05:53:45 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you sicken me!!!!
you love your Gf but you're sleeping with a complete stranger, in her bed and letting the tramp wear her things. You are a low down dirty dog!! I pray to God your girlfriend finds out! (she will find out) and gets away from you b4 she wastes anymore of her life with an A hole!
grow up and stop being so SELFISH!!!
2006-08-14 06:00:44 · answer #1 · answered by itsmeee2006 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, it's completely possible to love two (or more) women at the same time...sometimes for completely different reasons.
Second, you didn't REALLY become a piece of sh*t until you let the other woman wear your girl's clothes. That's just LOW, man.
Despite that, I'm going to tell you...you CAN have both these women. You can have them both without the risk of losing either or breaking anyone's heart. But, the ONLY way to do that is to let them know about each other. Actually, I guess the girl on the side already knows about your girl. The smartest thing you could do at this point (besides breaking it off with the new girl and praying your girlfriend doesn't find a stray hair/smell her on her clothes/have a friend that saw you with the broad) is come clean with your girlfriend. Tell her that you met someone. Assure her that your feelings for this other woman do not in any way diminish your love for her. Dude, it's a tough sale, and honestly...you don't sound like the type of guy that could pull it off. But, it's not as ridiculous as it sounds. I've done it more than once. It all depends on the mentalities of the people involved. I believe in polyamory, so...women I deal with have to accept that.
Good luck with this one.
Did I mention how low it was to let this broad wear your girl's clothes? That's just disrespectful, dude. You're gonna pay for that one, man. There's no runnin' from karma.
2006-08-14 06:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by Troy Powers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already took a big risk by being with another woman while you have a girlfriend you even took her to your home you share with her & let her wear her clothes , I think if you really love your girlfriend you should stop what you are doing before you get caught, or if you really want to continue being unfaithful you should just break up with your girlfriend eventhough you will break her heart but that's better then being with her & some other woman. I don't think you are ready for that commitment you have going you are still an immature boy.
2006-08-14 06:03:51 · answer #3 · answered by roxy10 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Risk is risk. You sound like a man who is afraid of being alone for a while. Go with your heart man. You may not end up with either of them, but the fact that you are playing around and cheating on your partner is evidence that you need a change. Be fair to her and let her go then take up with the Amazon.
2006-08-14 06:00:13 · answer #4 · answered by Brent 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yea, you dont want a womens point of view, but o'well. First of all, you say you love your lady, but why go out wit someone else. Obviously, you dont love her like you say you do. It could be lust you have for her. Love and lust are just alike, but different. It is hard to know the difference between the 2 until you and that person go your own ways. The only thing I can say is let her girlfriend know how you feel. Tell her that you need sometime to figure what you want. Date both girls, but let them both know. Then make your choice!!
2006-08-14 06:01:19 · answer #5 · answered by Angeliz F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, I am too an "Amazing"(Amazon) Woman and we do have the BOMB in the bedroom! Second, you have too much to lose if you and your gf live together too! But break it off with your gf and take a chance. If you were truely happy, you wouldn't have cheated in the first place. You might just wanna creep with the "AMAZING" to see if she is worth it all. Just be careful because you are dealing with hearts on this one boo! Don't listen to those negative hens answering your question either.
Good luck with all that pu$$y!!!
LOL & Be Good...=)
2006-08-14 06:08:49 · answer #6 · answered by feva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All I can say is when you cheat with someone on a regular basis, there is a 100% chance that either your girlfriend will find out, the side girl will start to catch feelings, or both. You are better off breaking it off with one or the other.
2006-08-14 05:58:33 · answer #7 · answered by red_necksuck 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
H**y S**t!! I can't say I haven't been tempted to cheat, I mean long distance relationships are hard. In your case however I think what you did was rediculous. It's not like your girlfriend had been gone for month or that you had no clue whe you would see her again.
From what you have said I don't think you are ready for a serious relatioship, one which requires you to be comitted to one woman. You want to enjoy both worlds and you can't.. aleast not in this situation. You need to choose.
2006-08-14 06:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have some self control. The universe will unfold as it should, and the potential mother of your kids will most likely dump you and tell all of her friends how much of a scumbag you are. You will have to move out of embarrassment and hopefully you will learn your lesson.
Honestly, retards like you are the reason why women hate men.
2006-08-14 05:58:26 · answer #9 · answered by SirCornman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
About to take? You already looked into the hellfires and there is no turning back. Congratulations, you have officially joined the ranks of cheating, lying scum. Do your gf a favor and have the decency to break up with her before she finds out what a jerk you really are.
2006-08-14 05:57:58 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋