Last night I was watching a movie with my Bf and his uncle kept coming in our room to talk to him about bullshit.And his uncle knew this was the only night,I could spend with him with out work. So my bf asked him stop coming in the room and he looked at me with a dirty look.(plus his uncle doesnt like me)So i went in the kitchen and his comes and wait till my boyfriend goes into the bathroom.And spills his drink all over me. So I was like what the **** and John (my bf) comes out the bathroom and asked what happen. I told his uncle spilled his drink all over me. And tell john i ran into him.My Bf believe me and he told his uncle that he was fucked up.But my problem is he keeps doing **** to try break us up.Like the day i was at work and came home.There was a letter that was suppose to be for my boyfriend breaking up with me.But it was from him i didnt tell my BF he work to hard to deal with this ****.What can i do to make this **** stop.Should I stand up to him or not??
2006-08-14 05:48:19 · 14 answers · asked by NJBiTcH4LiFe 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
the uncle has serious issues, and mental problems. it is sad to see a grown man meddling in the lives of young people.
if you really want this relationship to work and last, you should stop visiting their house to avoid any more run-ins with the uncle. i know you'll say, why? my bf lives there too. but seriously, you have to evaluate what is most important for you.
don't hide any incidents with the uncle from your bf, you should show him the letter.
your bf is the one who should talk to him and tell him to stop harassing you.
2006-08-14 06:06:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-29 06:24:48 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your id is "NJBitchforlife". Uhm... does the uncle have a point?
Actually, the uncle goes to far and should stay out of your business. You won't be able to stop him until you come into alliance with him and he believes you are not a 'njbitchforlife."
2006-08-14 06:03:29 · answer #3 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you all stay in the house together then I would say that your gonna have to stand up to him. Even if you do have involve you bf. I know you said he works too hard to be involved but it might be the only way you can all live comfortably in the house together.
2006-08-14 05:55:59 · answer #4 · answered by sha scrilla 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girlfriend... You need to tell your boyfriend the truth. He needs to handle this man to man. What is wrong with that idiot uncle of his? He might have the HOTS for you, or even creepy for his nephew? Get a lock on that room please.......or put the dresser in front of the door....
2006-08-14 05:55:36 · answer #5 · answered by bellita_716 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't go to your bf house anymore. What's up with his uncle? Does he not have a woman or something. Maybe your bf tells him bad stuff about you and that's why he don't like you or something. There's got to be more to this story.
2006-08-14 05:54:12 · answer #6 · answered by Littlemissy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, I would tell your bf about the letter, and that he needs to make his uncle's inappropriate behavior stop or, you will just aim for the nutz every time he pisses you off... one man can only take so many kicks to the nutz before he should stop. perhaps buy some steel toed boots in preperation.
2006-08-14 06:07:36 · answer #7 · answered by sisy j 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes u should.. and u should do it in front of ur bf.. u should've showed ur bf the letter to..
if u and ur bf stand up to the uncle together then maybe he'll back off.. i would've kicked him in the nuts for that bs
good luck
2006-08-14 06:06:32 · answer #8 · answered by Queen D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell Ur bf abt the letter, i hope u have not thrown it away. tell Ur bf to deal with his uncle and that the uncle is butting stress on Ur relationship with him.
2006-08-14 06:31:07 · answer #9 · answered by oye 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl u need to stand up for yourself let this man know you ain't goin nowhere and that he needs to stay out of you and yo mans biz
2006-08-18 03:36:53 · answer #10 · answered by shorty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋