well yesterday i got this new boyfriend but i lied to him about my age kinda i told him i was 14 but i doont turn 14 till september 13 and i told him i was in eighth grade but because of my grades i must be in the 7th grade for a seimester and 8th grade for the rest of the year plz help me i really like him should i tell him the truth when i see him
2006-08-14 05:46:43 · 38 answers · asked by ridgelladmin04@sbcglobal.net 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell him the truth!!!!!!!
2006-08-14 05:49:19 · answer #1 · answered by beautifully broken 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O.K., here's a little advice for you...you're only 13, you will have a lifetime of boys to flirt with and lie to. These things you have told this boy are not going to affect the rest of your life. He will find any reason now or in the future to tell you why he doesn't like you anymore. Take this as a life experience of what not to do in the future. Don't ever give people a reason to blame you for the things they are going to do anyway. If you tell him the truth (which i think you should by the way) you will find out exactly what I mean. he may not break it off with you right away, but he will act differently toward you until eventually he will use this as his excuse to dump you. In the future don't worry so much about what other people are going to think and be upfront about who you are and what you do. Good luck growing up in this confusing world!
2006-08-14 05:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Passionfire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you lied when you first started this relationship you need to tell him the truth now, before someone else tells him. Don't make it like oh I lied to you, but if you have had an interest in him for some time tell him that you weren't sure if he would have been interested if you told him you are actually 13 & finishing the 7th grade. Don't Lie it only causes trouble.
2006-08-14 05:53:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well its really not dat serious cuz ur almost 14 so ur considered 14. But i dont no y u lied about ur grade cuz if u gon be in eighth grade after this 1 seimester so there was no reason to ly bout dat
2006-08-14 05:52:26 · answer #4 · answered by Bubbles 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, as far as the age thing, why not tell him, your birthday is only a month away and who cares about what grade you are in, you will be in 9th next year right? So, I wouldn't worry about it. You are so young and will have many boyfriends in your lifetime, but telling the truth is usually a good thing - oh and missing out on birthday presents is silly girlfriend...
2006-08-14 05:52:04 · answer #5 · answered by auntb629 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...not a good start in fact. But as first meeting/dating, you can never know if you like him or not and maybe you just needed some...reserve, not telling him everything about you. Now you feel you like him, you're ashamed and afraid. Does he also like you? Are you sure he is frank, sincere, honest? Try to learn. If he really is, he deserves being told the truth, if not forget about him completely. As for telling the truth...never too late and you can do it easily, simply, straight away. Fingers crossed !
2006-08-14 06:02:56 · answer #6 · answered by ** lgreece2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already lied to him and the damage is done....... but if you tell him that you really like him and that is why you lied because you really wanted to be with him, and that you are so sorry and not acustomed to lieing then he may be willing to forgive and forget, and be understanding to why you lied to him in the first place. You should tell him the truth........ and in the future never start another relationship on lies again unless you have no intentions on it lasting or going anywhere, because it won't.
2006-08-14 06:14:47 · answer #7 · answered by shy&gental 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're foul. If you had told the truth in the first place you wouldn't be sweating the lie now. You know you should tell him the truth and then tell him "why" you lied.
Coming clean may bring you closer. In the future, be honest with yourself - a lie only leads to more lies. Geez.
2006-08-14 05:52:13 · answer #8 · answered by gravelgertiesgems 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell him the truth. It doesn't matter you like him alot or not, but lying is really not a good option. If he figure it out himself, then how can he believe you again, when on the start, you already lied, unless he don't give a damn about it.
2006-08-14 05:54:19 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth and this seems to be a really pressing thing for someone so young keep in mind that you are still young and that there is a lot of time to get to know men. But you have to be honest with them and yourself. You could not have known this guy for very long so please take your time. There are many many years left to date.
2006-08-14 05:51:43 · answer #10 · answered by Nicole C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why lie about your age and grade. Tell him the truth now because if he finds out later on, your doomed. If he likes you and is interested in you, he won't mind. Good luck dear
2006-08-14 05:52:36 · answer #11 · answered by ladydi9red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋