2006-08-14 05:37:04 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
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2006-08-14 05:43:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Quite possibly because he lacks discipline. He also See's others getting away with blue murder and follows suit. Lack of punishment through schools and parenting have caused many troublesome teenagers who grow up thinking they are untouchable.
You will have to sit him down and explain to him in very strong terms so he knows you are not joking that what he is doing is unacceptable in your eyes and as he is living in your house then a certain discipline must exist. If you let it go he will not improve and quite possibly will get worse.
Disciplining children doesn't mean kicking the hell out of them but a well placed smack when needed should not be frowned upon by limp writsed liberals and can make all the difference in most children. Sure there are going to be a few who will play devils advocate whatever but on the whole firm discipline works wonders... In the long run your siblings will thank you for it...
If you don't install discipline at a young age then when they get older the problems are a whole lot harder to sort out.
You don't say the age of your son but I would guess hes a teenager... always the hardest to get through to...
Good luck....
Graham
2006-08-14 06:02:10 · answer #2 · answered by the truth 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't say how old your boy is so its a bit tricky, but what I will say is this. You were that age once!!!! Were you always meticulously behaved?!! I am not condoning bad behaviour for one minute nor am I a soft git when it comes to kids. Far from it! But kids don't ask to be born and they don't come with a set of instructions or a rule book!!! Respect him for the little man that he his and that he will become but don't let him think he can do whatever, where ever either or he WILL be a pain in the backside!
2006-08-17 02:55:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girls are 2 and 6. I was 0n a weeks holidays from work and was looking forward to returning by day 4 or 5. My kids become a pain when they are bored , want my attention, are tired or hungry. Wich is pretty much all of the time.lol
2006-08-14 05:49:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 3 boys and my oldest is a real pain but only with me .... he is a sweetheart to everyone in my family he is 16 so i know its just that stage but lord i wish it would pass sooner then later i have a 14 year old and he is a clown so i hope he wont go thru this stage but i know i will have to go thru it with all 3 ... my parents had 4 girls and 1 son and they survive so it will pass be patient ...besides your love for your kids should be unconditional no matter what they put us thru
2006-08-14 06:01:32 · answer #5 · answered by tinker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that your son is trying to assert some sort of independance. Trying to prove that he is his own person and trying to find out how far you will let him go to achieve that. Don't give in to him, my son is 11 and is still trying to test the limits, i block him when I think enuff is enuff. All in all my son is pretty well balanced kid. Try to remember how you were as a kid, and use that to get you through this. Good Luck-----Soul
2006-08-14 05:51:14 · answer #6 · answered by Soul 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i think it's some thing to do with being a boy i have 3 boys they are all a pain in the back side
but they can also be the most wonderful children inthe world
(they didnt get that from their dad lol)
2006-08-16 02:53:21 · answer #7 · answered by just ask jo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know if to laugh at this one or if you tell you why'd you have a kid??? Children are blessings... but blessings come in little painful packages sometimes. Feel blessed that you have a child. There's people that go their life unable to bear children, losing children, or even raising children that are mistreated by society or even their own parents... Just take it one day at a time. One day, your child will leave the nest with all the things that you taught him/her. God bless you w/this one! LOL!
2006-08-14 05:45:10 · answer #8 · answered by ControVerse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all sons are pains in backside, and daughters too, we just didn't know until we had our own and have to put up with it!!! lol
2006-08-14 05:44:27 · answer #9 · answered by crafty ails 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Has he got any problems at school or home? These could be causes of being a pain.....or maybe he can't help it - you should accept him for who he is!
2006-08-14 05:44:58 · answer #10 · answered by Little Miss Helellena 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋